Bringing in another

There is more to sex than an erect penis. How do you maintain your sexuality both for yourself and for your partner? What techniques do you use to give both of you a great, satisfying sex life? How do you explore your own body and sexuality now that the rules have changed?
Spontaneous1
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Re: Bringing in another

Postby Spontaneous1 » Sun Jan 16, 2022 4:19 pm

Pau1, Agfa is giving you some excellent advice, take it! If want to satisfy your wife, without having to have strangers do it for you, then you need to take out a loan, or do whatever, and get the implant. These 'fill-ins' would never happen (if it were my marriage), that would be the deal breaker for sure! That said, it's not my marriage, and I'm not going to cast any stones your way. I wish you the best, but seriously these surrogates need to stop! It was 3 years before, now it's every 3 months, think about it!
Retired 65 y.o. Married. Moderate ED since 2019. Use constriction band ocassionately to help maintain erection, or Cialis/Viagra. Nocturnal/morning erections returning with VED usage. Lower libido than before.

beachbum
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Location: Fla. / Ky.

Re: Bringing in another

Postby beachbum » Wed Jan 19, 2022 6:52 am

I agree yet disagree with all that say don't. There is a lot of good advice. I say if it works for you and her then so be it . I agree that it could be risky and you need to all you can, which sounds like you are, to solve your issues to where you don't need another. But I disagree with those same responders too. If the shoe was on the other foot and it was their wife, partner, wouldn't, couldn't, or was not interested in sex, and yet they were, would they just sit back and say OK I don't either then? Probably not. Tension would start to build up in their marriage too. And the longer it goes on that way the more it builds up, I Know
So in my opinion, which it and $3 you can get a cup of Starbuck, if both of you can live with your solution then so be it. And hopefully you can get fixed and put all of this behind you and go on with your marriage. Best of luck no matter which way it goes.
71. ED for about 10+ years to one extent or another. Implanted 9/14/2016 AMS CX 18+3 Fl/ Ky

Pau1pau1
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Re: Bringing in another

Postby Pau1pau1 » Sat Jan 22, 2022 3:03 am

I have my op booked end of feb. Have read all the advice on here and looking forward to it but also scared as shit.

FreddyFree
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Re: Bringing in another

Postby FreddyFree » Sat Jan 22, 2022 8:00 am

Bringing in another can be dangerous to a couple that communicates poorly. With or without an implant.
AMS 700 CX 18cm. x 12mm. With 3cm. RTEs. 10/10/18

steamfitter
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Re: Bringing in another

Postby steamfitter » Thu Jan 27, 2022 10:38 pm

Pau1pau1 wrote:No I wouldn’t be interested in having any type of sex with another.
This would be just for my wife until I had the implant.
Don’t want a regular thing either , just maybe on a vacation , that sounds ok.
Anyone done this? Or am I mad for thinking it.
Don’t want to ruin my marriage but know my wife is missing intercourse.

You are asking for big trouble IMO. Don't do it bro.

MyJohnson
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Re: Bringing in another

Postby MyJohnson » Sun Aug 27, 2023 10:44 am

Bottom line: NO, don't!

Randalltx
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Location: Texas - Austin/San Antonio

Re: Bringing in another

Postby Randalltx » Sun Aug 27, 2023 9:36 pm

MyJohnson wrote:Bottom line: NO, don't!


Hey buddy-Too late. That's an old post he had already had his wife with other guys several times.

I get the sentiment, cannot disagree.

Randy
76yo, ED Venuous Leak since age 40. South Texas location.
02/09/2023 24 CM Titan Dr. Hofer, Stone Oak Meth San Antonio.
@OEM 7.5L x 6.0/Flaccid 2.0L x 6.0 (Grower)
@5 months 6.50L x 6.0/Flaccid 6.0L x 6.0
@8 months 7.50L x 6.0/Flaccid 6.0L x 6.0

ready2go
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Re: Bringing in another

Postby ready2go » Tue Sep 12, 2023 8:48 pm

Flounder wrote:I don't pass judgement either but this is just an observation. Did you ever notice that many stories about swinging, wife sharing and cuckold start with; “my ex-wife……..”!

hahaha ! yeah good point . :D well to late ,she banged a couple of guys and now it wont stop .regardless of a implant or not , she just wont mention it .

Mark1974
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Re: Bringing in another

Postby Mark1974 » Tue Feb 27, 2024 7:55 pm

I'm curious to see where this marriage is now
I was born in 1974. I've had venous leak ED since early 30's, but managed with pde5 inhibitors until mid 40's. I have fairly severe hour-glassing, but no hard plaques. My urologist is worldwide acknowledged expert Dr. Laurence Levine


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