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I'm 6 inches fully erect and was embarrassed about it for a long time. From the locker room to the television guys were walking around swinging hammers between their legs. From music to magazines women desire BIG dicks inside them. Then came the obsession with BBC and the whole interracial thing. It made me self conscious and I felt inferior. When my wife started noticing how I struggled with this issue she told me something that made feel better, Although it didn't at first....
Her previous boyfriend was apparently well endowed and she told me that sex with him was not enjoyable. She described it as feeling like he was trying to shove a cucumber in her. At first I was like "great" who wants to hear about ex-boyfriends big dick? Anyway, she went on to say that I fit just right and sex with me has always felt great. I guess after 29 years together she really is happy with my size.
On a side note last spring we became nudists and after seeing hundreds of penises over the summer I feel better. The great majority of men are pretty normal in size. I saw only a handful of well endowed fellas.

Glad you feel better about your size, catfan. From the beginning, I was thinking you had nothing to be ashamed about. Six inches is actually above average for men in general. For Caucasian Americans, the average I have seen is about 5.5. For Asian men, it is only about 5.

It's nice that penis size and erection don't play a role in masturbation. One can always do that for pleasure. It is very comfortable when the dilator slides through the prostate. I sounde with a Hegar dilator 13mm in diameter and 19cm long.

Here is a lengthy article.

https://unravelingsize.wordpress.com/

My Penis dimensions in cm
Unregulated length 10cm, circumference 12cm
Erect length 13.5cm, circumference 14cm

I was always embarrassed about my size in the locker room. I never knew about growers vs. showers. Bad memories from junior high. At least now I know that erect, I am average.

RichardWelch wrote:Size doesn't generally hurt your ability to convince a woman to have sex with you but size does matter beyond that point.

Points on the pathway to sex

Getting a woman to CONSIDER letting you into her bed
Getting a woman to actually let you into her bed
Getting a woman to actually let you get INTO her vagina
Getting a woman to let you into her vagina a second time

Size matters on some of those points. What you DO with whatever size you bring to the activity is important, especially for that last point. More important than size, even.

I recall a friend of mine saying this: "I can do more tricks on 4 inches of (penis) than a monkey can on a mile rope."

I thought I'd share a penis size story.

For a while I had a sex partner who fantasized about really big cocks. She never complained about my penis, which is a bit below average length and a bit above average girth, but she occasionally made comments that made it clear that giant cocks were a turn on.

So I bought a large, double-ended jelly dildo with one really thick end and the other end even thicker. Oh man did that make her hot. It turns out that neither end would even fit into her, despite our best efforts, but she didn't seem to care. She put that giant cock on her belly and wrapped both hands around it. That left her pussy conveniently available for me to fuck, which I did, while she tightly gripped the dildo against her belly, moaning all the while. What fun!

Here's the lesson. Instead of letting yourself be intimidated by a woman who fantasizes about bigger penises than yours, why not lean into her fantasy and see if you can both have a wonderful time.

FreddyFree wrote:"..lengthy..."

Ha! I see what you did there.

I'm 6.8 in length which is above average, but girth is pretty much average I think at about 4.7

Probably would like to have a bit more girth although I'm more worried about having a full enough erection to use that girth than the actual girth itself8