strength, hope, encouragment

There is more to sex than an erect penis. How do you maintain your sexuality both for yourself and for your partner? What techniques do you use to give both of you a great, satisfying sex life? How do you explore your own body and sexuality now that the rules have changed?
needsomehope
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strength, hope, encouragment

Postby needsomehope » Fri Jan 17, 2020 7:39 am

I've been in a super dark place lately. if you've seen any of my posts you're thinking "yeah dude, that's an understatement." brief recap for anyone not familiar: non-existent sex life due to awful dick. every ailment possible. Low T, peyronies, venous leak, scrotal webbing, small unit... oh! I just found out I have pelvic floor problems. hooray!! basically God/the universe decided to neuter me.

I realize I can address all of these things, but it's going to take time, faith, and a shit ton of hard work. I'm just not sure I've got it in me at this point.

I was very depressed the other night and searched for some dismal terms on here. came across a user or two that apparently killed themselves. I don't want to be the next. I want to believe that perhaps there could be a sexual existence somewhere in my future.

any words of encouragement or anything would be much appreciated. if you'd like to message I'm down. I'll trade phone numbers with anyone willing to talk or text.

I'd like to be a productive member of this community and engage in a more positive way. thanks if you read this and I appreciate anyone reaching out. have a good day guys.

60s_surfer
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Re: strength, hope, encouragment

Postby 60s_surfer » Fri Jan 17, 2020 6:57 pm

While those of us on Franktalk can type some encouraging words into this Web page, what you really need is professional, in-person help from both a sexual medicine expert and a sex therapist. Your physical issues are driving your psychological issues in an ever tightening downward spiral. While you might be able to break this spiral yourself, outside help has a much better chance of success. To find a sex therapist in your area, look on the AASECT Web site, https://www.aasect.org/. For a sexual medicine expert, I suggest starting with your urologist. What area of the country are you in?
71 years old in 2018; married 49 years. ED since 2001. PD5 inhibitors (Viagra, etc.) worked with increasing dosages until side effects got too bad by 2017. Now using Trimix injections. Delayed ejaculation has been a continuing problem since 2012.


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