Evinrude wrote:So...Viagra to the rescue ! At first 50mg did the trick and sex was amazing...I could last for 30 minutes, she with multiple orgasms. But over the months have needed more and more Viagra 100mg for awhile....but now it takes 150mg (overdose)...so looks like the implant is the way to go.
After Viagra lost effectiveness for me, Cialis, then Levitra (tadalifil) worked for a while, each in turn. I never rotated back to Viagra, but my tolerance for it might have abated...maybe. I bypassed V.E.D., suppositories and injections and asked to investigate an implant.
Evinrude wrote:Having said all that, another problem I never expected to have is achieving orgasm. Her magic hand has done the trick for me, but never via the vagina.... we have yet to experience simutaneous orgasm....that would seem the Holy Grail.
I never had problems (before implant) achieving orgasm. In fact, it came too early (partly due to having to keep up vigorous stimulation to maintain an erection, and that stimulation causing an inevitable climax).
Now, with the implant, for several months, orgasm has been difficult, sometimes not possible. I have not missed it one bit. Her orgasms are thrilling enough. And when I DO climax, often enough, it is during one of her episodes of near-continuous orgasm. So, the "simultaneous orgasm" has happened many times.
Evinrude wrote:Would be ironic that the one thing that gets it up also inhibits getting it off. Maybe drug free sex via going bionic will help ?
I will repeat. I do not miss my orgasms one bit.
Over the years, as my erections collapsed without my lover having had even one orgasm, I often thought I would be willing to trade my orgasms forever for being able to give her satisfying orgasms. (I phrased it, "my orgasms are easy and cheap, hers are exquisite; a mix of the earthy and the divine, rare and valuable).
I also thought that if I made that trade, I might regret the "forever/never" aspect of my orgasm trade. Thankfully, I orgasm about 75% of the time and she orgasms 100% of the time. She misses my semen and my orgasm a LOT more than I do!