Use of Fleshlite with VED

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Use of Fleshlite with VED

Postby oldcamaros » Thu Feb 02, 2012 5:32 pm

I was wondering if anyone has used the Fleshlite in connection with the vacuum pump. After using the pump and then placing on the constriction ring has anyone then used the Fleshlite. I am post op 5 months. Viagra still does not work but I can get a good erection with the pump. Would the use of the Fleshlite for masturbation help with possibly regaining an erection with just Viagra. Also where is the best source to purchase one. I am also looking at starting injections in the future. Thanks in advance

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Re: Use of Fleshlite with VED

Postby Cajun Jeff » Thu Feb 02, 2012 10:19 pm

Not exactly sure how to answer your question. Im sure you can use a fleshlight with a cockring after pumping. I dont know if it will help with your ED but it will probably feel good. You can also use the fleshlight with injections. If you google search you will find different sites for the purchase. Best of luck. Your still early in the game and keep working at it. I have found that the injections have given me the most progress in the recovery of ED.. Not there yet but getting close.

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68 years old, Married 48 years. Prostate Cancer surgery 11 years ago. Tried Pills, VED, moved to injections (EdEx) for past 6 years. Implanted with AMS 700 LGX by Dr Hellstrom in New Orleans at Tulane Medical. 1/13/20

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Re: Use of Fleshlite with VED

Postby oldcamaros » Fri Feb 03, 2012 4:25 pm

Thanks for the reply. I was just wondering if maybe using something like the Fleshlite may "awaken" some lost feelings in the "ole johnson". Oh well hopefully I will start injections soon and maybe that will "kick start" something.

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Re: Use of Fleshlite with VED

Postby regain-is-the-aim » Fri Feb 03, 2012 7:28 pm

OC;

It's a great time! The more you use him the better probability for a better recovery of erection function. Remember, with the fleshlite the stroke is great, good and a feels REAL good, but the climax unleashes much more down there and the nerves and parts involved are numerous. I think the stimulation and the intensive nature, for me anyway, of a climax with the fleshlite- helps somehow, somewhere. Even when you start injection it may be helpful to use your fleshlite. They have a website and it is easy to order. However, that puts you on their email list and you may, over time, tire of their ads and want to "unsubscribe". I did.

I find the fleshlite a bit heavy, weight wise, but I do use it and enjoy the "process". There may be other tools that will do the same thing but I am satisfied with my purchase of the item and will continue to include it in my journey. If anyone has a better tool- please share.

For 5 months post-op it sounds like you are doing well. Congrats!! I am here also because of PCa and the resulting robotic surgery. Ah, this is a journey and rehab can be fun!!

Hope this helps a bit.

Regards,

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Re: Use of Fleshlite with VED

Postby Spartan » Fri Feb 03, 2012 10:17 pm

I've had a fleshlight for a couple of years, and found it to be a great device -- close to the real thing. My surgery was last July, and a few months later I started therapy with daily Cialis 5 mg, and a vacuum pump. Although I like the pump, I didn't find the fleshlight as satisfactory as I had hoped. I believe the reason is that erection doesn't go into the body below the ring at the base of the shaft.

On my sixth month check-up, my doctor asked about the results. The Cialis wasn't doing anything, so he put me on Trimix injections. The results have been very satisfactory, and I've discovered that fleshlight works really well with erections produced by the trimix. Actually, I have had some really intense orgasms with it. I'm going to get another fleshlight, but this time with a textured interior. Now that I have dry orgasms, the cleanup is a lot easier!

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Re: Use of Fleshlite with VED

Postby asmith » Sat Feb 04, 2012 6:20 pm

I've used all the pills, a VED, cock rings, and finally Trimix injections.

I have also used a Fleshlight in combination with Trimix injections and a cock ring for the past 10 months. If you're unable to have sex with your wife, a Fleshlight is the next best thing. Believe me, it's awesome -- feels very close to the real thing. In fact, I am multi-orgasmic with a Fleshlight -- can have two very intense ejaculative orgasms 15-minutes apart within a span of an hour's use of the Fleshlight.

Just one complaint about my experience with the Fleshlight: it's the so-called "death grip." The Fleshlight's case is about twice the size of an ordinary flashlight. You grip it like a flashlight and either stroke or thrust with it. So gripping the Fleshlight for effective use not only requires good dexterity and hand strength, but also you have to grip it tightly for as long as you use it. And that's where the death-grip comes into play. It's not uncommon to strain or even sprain your hand using it and, in some instances, it has taken a week for me to recover from a hand sprain using the Fleshlight. Still, the Fleshlight is better than using your hand, but of course not as good as the real thing.


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