Aw, shoot

There is more to sex than an erect penis. How do you maintain your sexuality both for yourself and for your partner? What techniques do you use to give both of you a great, satisfying sex life? How do you explore your own body and sexuality now that the rules have changed?
gbeard69
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Aw, shoot

Postby gbeard69 » Fri May 03, 2019 12:31 am

Since I lost my prostate seven years ago and basically dried up, if you don't count pee and precum, I have noticed that when I watch porn, I want to see ejaculations. I could used to take cumshots or leave them, but now it's just not complete without the gent cutting loose with a load. It has become a turn-on for me. I have talked to other prostate cancer survivors, straight and gay, who have said the same thing. Anybody here?

David_R
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Re: Aw, shoot

Postby David_R » Fri May 03, 2019 8:26 am

I remember jacking off the night before my prostate was removed because I knew it was the last time that I would see cum shooting out of my penis. But since the orgasms feel just as good as before, I think that is kind of minor considering that I am now a 19-year cancer survivor. :)

vajim1
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Re: Aw, shoot

Postby vajim1 » Fri May 03, 2019 8:37 am

I am with you on cum shots,why watch if there is none! :D
76 year old fart. Prostate removed Oct. 9, 2017,Psa 30 days after .15 next Psa .2. 37 Radiation treatments for recurrent cancer, 1 year out Psa .033 ZERO ERECTIONS, implanted Sept 5 2019 Dr. Lentz Duke Raleigh N.C. Titan 22cm.

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SPOILER ALERT! Re: Aw, shoot

Postby Lost Sheep » Fri May 03, 2019 11:50 am

Watch carefully. As I understand it, most of the cum seen on screen is some kind of creamy foodstuffs. Cream of potato soup and such. You very seldom see ejaculate coming straight out of a penis, but through the magic of editing, all over, spraying on, dripping on the actors.

Don't focus on what you had in the past which is now missing. Focus on what you can do now.
Lost Sheep
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017
Prostate Cancer 2023
READ OLD THREADS-ask better questions -better understand answers
Be part of your medical team
Document pre-op size-photos and written records
Pre-op VED therapy helps. Post-op is another matter

David_R
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Re: Aw, shoot

Postby David_R » Fri May 03, 2019 3:04 pm

+ 1

gbeard69
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Re: Aw, shoot

Postby gbeard69 » Sat May 04, 2019 12:48 am

I will admit that I have watched a couple of guys jack off in the steam room at my gym, and it's just as interesting in person as it is on video. And while I am grateful for what I have, including the occasional phenomenal orgasm, I do miss what I once had. In the words of Joni Mitchell, "Don't it always seem to go, that you don't know what you've got till it's gone."

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Re: Aw, shoot

Postby oldbeek » Sun May 05, 2019 12:14 am

I don't want to see the guy squirting all over her face. I enjoy watching when the girl keeps sucking and swallowing as the guy is coming. My favorite memory; Nov 15 ,2010, Marriott , Phoenix AZ. I have a pornographic memory!!
82, good health, RP 7-2017, all nerves taken , PSA 0.05, 4-18,, .07 1/19,.05 4/19, .03 11-21, .04 11-23, implanted 4-1-18, Infra-pubic, AMS lgx 15 cm with 5cm rte. Implant at USC Keck. Dr Boyd and Dr Loh Doyle 6.5 x 5, 800 AUS 7-21-20


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