Blow Job question

There is more to sex than an erect penis. How do you maintain your sexuality both for yourself and for your partner? What techniques do you use to give both of you a great, satisfying sex life? How do you explore your own body and sexuality now that the rules have changed?
Charlie2019
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Re: Blow Job question

Postby Charlie2019 » Tue Jul 14, 2020 5:53 pm

Happy Toy wrote:My first time receiving (and giving), oral was when I was in my early teens and was with my best ,male, friend. I have loved it ever since!



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Re: Blow Job question

Postby vajim1 » Thu Jul 16, 2020 9:39 am

Like Happy Toy that was mine too! :D
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Re: Blow Job question

Postby Beachdude » Thu Jul 16, 2020 10:59 am

Very good question, and some very good replies. My story is like some of the others. We've been married for 30 years. When we were dating, she gave incredible blowjobs. I remember the first one from her, and I was thinking, she's definitely done this before. But after we married, they just stopped. I didn't complain because like some others, I just really preferred intercourse anyway. I also love giving oral to her, probably as much as she enjoys receiving it. But as of late, for some reason, I have been longing for another BJ from her. But she just doesn't like doing it and only did it before because she though that was what guys preferred. So I guess I will have to just do without. But I still love giving her oral and feel oral is actually the most intimate form of sex in that you are totally giving her/him pleasure that is essentially directed only at them at that moment. My wife, luckily for me, orgasms easily from both oral and intercourse. So she has multiple orgasms during each session, and does a lot for my ego, which is really needed in that I do suffer from ED.
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Re: Blow Job question

Postby Old Guy » Thu Jul 16, 2020 3:19 pm

Since this came to the top again I read through every post. Lots of good stories.
Long ago when single I knew a lady who loved sucking dick. One night after work she asked for a ride home but directed me to a street along a park that was real dark. When she told me to stop I thought she don't live here, there's no houses. By that time she was already grabbing at my pants. She unzipped me, pulled out my cock and sucked me dry. That went on for over a year, mostly 5 nights a week.
My current wife will suck me IF I ask. She has never sucked me off in our 33 years. I feel like she does it just because I ask, and doesn't enjoy it. She just don't get into it. On the other hand if I do oral on her she moans and will usually have an orgasm. She is normally a quiet fuck, only a little ooohhh when she orgasms on my dick.
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Re: Blow Job question

Postby dtwarren1942 » Fri Jul 31, 2020 1:24 pm

I am using a VED and Osbon tension bands to generate and maintain an erection. Accordingly, I have difficulty achieving an orgasm. Once my wife has her orgasm, she is willing to give me a blow job, but, unfortunately, by the time it is my turn, my dick is too insensitive and my wife has a very low gag threshold so she can’t go much below my glans which is not enough to get me to orgasm. Very frustrating so I usually beg off.
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Re: Blow Job question

Postby Lester33 » Sat Aug 01, 2020 12:54 pm

dtwarren
That was the exact reason I knew after the first time of pumping with bands it wasn’t going to work for us.
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Re: Blow Job question

Postby Reggieman » Sat Aug 01, 2020 7:21 pm

Lester33-Ditto
Retired. R.P. 2016. Bilateral nerve sparing surgery. Now use .15cc of Bimix twice weekly & anorgasmia, moderately incontinent. Wife no longer interested so go solo with Electro-stim using Erostek ET-312. Now am Type 2 diabetic.

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Re: Blow Job question

Postby Robert66 » Thu Aug 06, 2020 10:43 am

Reggieman wrote:Although I've received oral I never received it from any lady that knew what she was doing or really was into it. They would make a short attempt and give up. On the other hand, I loved giving oral and found it to be very intimate even more so than intercourse. I discovered it later in life as my 1st wife was religious and thought only simple sex was ok with her church. She found out just before our divorce that everyone in her church was doing oral with no reservations.

To me giving was always a very special thing so I did not overdo it so as to become mundane. Unfortunately, my 2nd (current) wife secretly disliked it and eventually demanded (yes demanded) I stop. Turns out I was getting more pleasure (physically, spiritually, romantically) out of it than she even though she had really great orgasms from oral. It's difficult to accept that I will never give or receive oral again.

Trying to cheat on her with another lady would be a comical affair. I'd have to find a gal (difficult in itself as I am not social), carry a chilled hypo needle with my Bimix in it to inject my penis, try to not leak urine on the new gal and pull it all off without being caught. I'm 72 and don't know any single old ladies my age that would want to aid me in my vice. I laugh just thinking about it and get pissed when I think I may never have oral or a real orgasm again (I have anorgasmia).

I've had dreams giving oral and have woken up still flicking my tongue. Talk about waking up to instant disappointment.





Well i scored a 29 year old submissive and she thinks 5 times a week means i dont feel well
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Re: Blow Job question

Postby Charlie2019 » Thu Aug 06, 2020 1:45 pm

Robert66 wrote:
Reggieman wrote:Although I've received oral I never received it from any lady that knew what she was doing or really was into it. They would make a short attempt and give up. On the other hand, I loved giving oral and found it to be very intimate even more so than intercourse. I discovered it later in life as my 1st wife was religious and thought only simple sex was ok with her church. She found out just before our divorce that everyone in her church was doing oral with no reservations.

To me giving was always a very special thing so I did not overdo it so as to become mundane. Unfortunately, my 2nd (current) wife secretly disliked it and eventually demanded (yes demanded) I stop. Turns out I was getting more pleasure (physically, spiritually, romantically) out of it than she even though she had really great orgasms from oral. It's difficult to accept that I will never give or receive oral again.

Trying to cheat on her with another lady would be a comical affair. I'd have to find a gal (difficult in itself as I am not social), carry a chilled hypo needle with my Bimix in it to inject my penis, try to not leak urine on the new gal and pull it all off without being caught. I'm 72 and don't know any single old ladies my age that would want to aid me in my vice. I laugh just thinking about it and get pissed when I think I may never have oral or a real orgasm again (I have anorgasmia).

I've had dreams giving oral and have woken up still flicking my tongue. Talk about waking up to instant disappointment.





Well i scored a 29 year old submissive and she thinks 5 times a week means i dont feel well



WOW, lucky guy. If you need a pinch runner, I'm available :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Re: Blow Job question

Postby Robert66 » Thu Aug 06, 2020 10:20 pm

Charlie2019 wrote:
Robert66 wrote:
Reggieman wrote:Although I've received oral I never received it from any lady that knew what she was doing or really was into it. They would make a short attempt and give up. On the other hand, I loved giving oral and found it to be very intimate even more so than intercourse. I discovered it later in life as my 1st wife was religious and thought only simple sex was ok with her church. She found out just before our divorce that everyone in her church was doing oral with no reservations.

To me giving was always a very special thing so I did not overdo it so as to become mundane. Unfortunately, my 2nd (current) wife secretly disliked it and eventually demanded (yes demanded) I stop. Turns out I was getting more pleasure (physically, spiritually, romantically) out of it than she even though she had really great orgasms from oral. It's difficult to accept that I will never give or receive oral again.

Trying to cheat on her with another lady would be a comical affair. I'd have to find a gal (difficult in itself as I am not social), carry a chilled hypo needle with my Bimix in it to inject my penis, try to not leak urine on the new gal and pull it all off without being caught. I'm 72 and don't know any single old ladies my age that would want to aid me in my vice. I laugh just thinking about it and get pissed when I think I may never have oral or a real orgasm again (I have anorgasmia).

I've had dreams giving oral and have woken up still flicking my tongue. Talk about waking up to instant disappointment.





Well i scored a 29 year old submissive and she thinks 5 times a week means i dont feel well



WOW, lucky guy. If you need a pinch runner, I'm available :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:



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