She farted and pissed a lot during her orgasm.

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Re: She farted and pissed a lot during her orgasm.

Postby Larry10625 » Wed Jul 11, 2018 2:08 pm

Gary59 wrote:I met a new girl friend and we had sex for the first time a couple of days ago. I like her a lot as we have much in common. This relationship is only a couple of weeks old. We are in our mid 50's. She had normal orgasms the first few times, but as we continued she farted continuously and basically emptied her bladder on subsequent orgasms. (Check that off the bucket list). It turns me off, not to mention I had to wash everything including the comforter and blanket. I even had to wash the mattress by spraying hot water on it and tried to wet vacuum it.

I really like this lady but can't seem to come up with a way of telling her this has to stop. I know I will loose her. I need some wisdom here please.



My wife ejaculates a lot as well. We got our hands on a few of the incontinence pads the hospitals use... they are very large and don't let liquids penetrate through... I still think doing it in her bed is a great idea... you won't have to tell her but she will definitely know. :)

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Re: She farted and pissed a lot during her orgasm.

Postby AnotherOldMan » Wed Jul 11, 2018 3:16 pm

She had normal orgasms the first few times, but as we continued she farted continuously and basically emptied her bladder on subsequent orgasms


Multiples during one session? Finally losing control after several orgasms? If so, sounds like a keeper to me! I'd waterproof a bed and marry her!!
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Re: She farted and pissed a lot during her orgasm.

Postby justanotherdrumber » Wed Jul 11, 2018 7:16 pm

Larry10625 wrote:
Gary59 wrote:I met a new girl friend and we had sex for the first time a couple of days ago. I like her a lot as we have much in common. This relationship is only a couple of weeks old. We are in our mid 50's. She had normal orgasms the first few times, but as we continued she farted continuously and basically emptied her bladder on subsequent orgasms. (Check that off the bucket list). It turns me off, not to mention I had to wash everything including the comforter and blanket. I even had to wash the mattress by spraying hot water on it and tried to wet vacuum it.

I really like this lady but can't seem to come up with a way of telling her this has to stop. I know I will loose her. I need some wisdom here please.


My wife ejaculates a lot as well. We got our hands on a few of the incontinence pads the hospitals use... they are very large and don't let liquids penetrate through... I still think doing it in her bed is a great idea... you won't have to tell her but she will definitely know. :)

Larry

Gary,

You really need positively determine whether she is "emptying her bladder" [Urine] or female squirting [ejaculate]. There is a huge difference.

Generally ejaculate has no odor. There could also be the possibility that youre getting a little of both.

If she is squirting, this is normal; she cannot help it. It just happens when she orgasms. In fact, IF this is the case; it may be so natural to her she may think you know about squirting. She may have dealt with this her whole life.

In the present sexual climate, many consider squirting ~H~0~T~ and very desireable, but everyone has their own preferences too.

If she is urinating, it could be incontinence from aging or some other health problem. At this point ill just say our brotherhood has spent time in the company of a urologist.

If she is aware of it, possibly she is too embarrassed to discuss it at this point. If this is the case my concern would be why she isn't more
active in the clean up effort. It shouldnt be left entirely up to you even though it might be your household.

Either way, a wet spot is a wet spot. It's not uncommon to have wet spots from either partners natural body secretions durring intercourse.. Squirting just maximises that.

It's up to the male to be the Dominant partner , especially early on in the relationship and responsibly take the lead to discuss this issue with her and attempt to seek a solution together. This sets the stage for everything that follows. I realize it's early in this relationship, however; if you cannot discuss sex together; then you probably shouldnt be having sex together.

The solution could be as simple as not drinking as much prior to anticipating becoming intimate , having her empty her bladder prior to having intercourse or utilizing a waterproof protective pad under her while indulging in sex.

You're the host in your home, limit her beverages when youre in the mood to become intimate. Set the example say, "I'm going to take a quick leak before things get any heavier."., shell probably follow. Have absorbant pads or a towel handy for under her. They are always handy for any type wet spot. She will probably think youre very thoughtful.

Always have her urinate after intercourse to to help avoid [UTI] a urinary tract infection.

So you're in a new relationship, you have sex together for the first time at your place. You cannot expect her to bring a carton of absorbant pads with her; "just in case we decide to fuck" .

Now the issue is out in the open. Grab the Bull by the horns. [Figuratively speaking]

It should prove informative to see IF she takes any precaution when you bang her in her own bed.

If the simple precautions dont work, its time for you to ensure she see's a doctor.

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Re: She farted and pissed a lot during her orgasm.

Postby grandhaven » Thu Jul 12, 2018 1:04 pm

So female ejaculation/squirting is really a thing? I assumed it was just a fake porn thing, that it is really just pissing. Interesting!
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Re: She farted and pissed a lot during her orgasm.

Postby bldoink » Thu Jul 12, 2018 3:25 pm

The jury is still out on that one as far as medical science. Last I did any google "research" the official medical answer is still urine. Many other people adamantly believe otherwise. I have no idea.
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Re: She farted and pissed a lot during her orgasm.

Postby Larry10625 » Thu Jul 12, 2018 3:29 pm

bldoink wrote:The jury is still out on that one as far as medical science. Last I did any google "research" the official medical answer is still urine. Many other people adamantly believe otherwise. I have no idea.



While in school, we were lead to believe that during an orgasm the ureter was "turned off" for lack of a better phrase and during urination, you could not have an orgasm. :? :? :?

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Re: She farted and pissed a lot during her orgasm.

Postby FreddyFree » Thu Jul 12, 2018 5:20 pm

grandhaven wrote:I assumed it was just a fake porn thing, that it is really just pissing.


You're right it is a fake porn thing. There is no anatomy, other than the bladder, that can hold that much fluid.

Larry10625 wrote:during an orgasm the ureter was "turned off"


This is true for male anatomy. The sphincter at the bladder is closed. Urine is not good for the spermatazoa.
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Re: She farted and pissed a lot during her orgasm.

Postby justanotherdrumber » Thu Jul 12, 2018 6:36 pm

bldoink wrote:The jury is still out on that one as far as medical science. Last I did any google "research" the official medical answer is still urine. Many other people adamantly believe otherwise. I have no idea.

One thing I can attest to is that natural squirting or gushing is totally different from they portrayed in most porn, although I have seen a few accurate examples in erotic videos.

When I gave my response to the original post on here I was speaking primarily from personal experiences over the years backed by some previous research that I'd done over the years; not a one time g@@gle search.

Some women have barely noticable little pulses of fluid, some have larger discharges like jets; while others have even larger blasts of fluid that can be expelled a considerable distance .

Ive never experiences sustained stream like in porn style. Those seem to result from bladder enemas of saline solution.

While most controvery surrounds, what's actually contained in the fluid. "Is it Pee or something else ?"; followed by, " where does it come fom ?" My personal unanswered question is, "where does the forceful energy result from. Obviously there was no voluntary contraction of abdominal muscles. Its impossible to pee that hard. Some of it can strike your hand, arm or face quite forcefully. Other times its barely noticable. The female is generally aware of it occuring, sometimes an orgasm, sometimes more of a contraction of sorts. Sometimes they are only aware of the fluid escaping.
Personally Ive never smelled urine at all and it never stained, however; some women claim it feels similar to the sensation they get prior to urinating or they confuse it with urinating; sometimes cutting it off or not allowing it to happen out of shame.

The fluid "seems" thinner than water and less cohesive; it appears to evaporate more rapidly off surfaces like skin [possibly absorbed] and not so quickly like a saturated bed sheet.

It has been suggested that perhaps its purpose was to rinse natural lubrication and semen off the exterior of the vagina after intercourse like a self contained bidet prior to evolving into having running water in our homes.

What you'll notice is that most g@@gle originating information is often a regurgitation of a few published sources or porn related. IE: "Make her squirt".

A small gush of whitish fluid from tiny glands on the side of the urethra, called Skene’s perihttps://www.everydayhealth.com/colu ... n/urethral glands, but also sometimes referred to as the “female prostate”
https://www.everydayhealth.com/columns/ ... jaculation

https://www.netdoctor.c
    o.uk/healthy-living/sex-life/a2295/female-ejaculation/

    https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn ... ists-find/

    https://www.menshealth.com.sg/sex-women ... w/?slide=1
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    Re: She farted and pissed a lot during her orgasm.

    Postby newtoed » Wed Jul 18, 2018 1:45 am

    Gentlemen, squirting is real. I learned anatomy extensively in Med school and we did not know about any glands that would explain squirting. However I had several girlfriends that soaked several towel and it was not pee.
    My current girlfriend is in her mid 20’s and orgasms super intensely about 20-30 times in a session soaking 2-3 very thick towels. I have a waterproof mattress protector and a full scuba gear(just kidding. When she comes (and I confirmed this with my fingers ) her bladder fills up with liquid about a size of a lemon. Also her urethra gets as thick as my thumb (feels great on the dick. There are glands alongside the female urethra producing the liquid. This is the female version of our prostrate.
    If she doesn’t pee before sex the first squirt smells a little like urine, the rest has no smell.
    I personally love it, but doing a lot of laundry for sure. Buying my detergent at Costco wholesale lol.
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    Re: She farted and pissed a lot during her orgasm.

    Postby justanotherdrumber » Wed Jul 18, 2018 6:44 am

    newtoed wrote:Gentlemen, squirting is real. I learned anatomy extensively in Med school and we did not know about any glands that would explain squirting. However I had several girlfriends that soaked several towel and it was not pee.
    My current girlfriend is in her mid 20’s and orgasms super intensely about 20-30 times in a session soaking 2-3 very thick towels. I have a waterproof mattress protector and a full scuba gear(just kidding. When she comes (and I confirmed this with my fingers ) her bladder fills up with liquid about a size of a lemon. Also her urethra gets as thick as my thumb (feels great on the dick. There are glands alongside the female urethra producing the liquid. This is the female version of our prostrate.
    If she doesn’t pee before sex the first squirt smells a little like urine, the rest has no smell.
    I personally love it, but doing a lot of laundry for sure. Buying my detergent at Costco wholesale lol.


    The female urethra is very elastic, proved through a process called "Sounding"; it's nor rigid like a piece of hose is. What you described as, "getting as thick as your thumb"; as well as multiple squirts or gushes ARE very real in my experience.
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