Sexual communication

There is more to sex than an erect penis. How do you maintain your sexuality both for yourself and for your partner? What techniques do you use to give both of you a great, satisfying sex life? How do you explore your own body and sexuality now that the rules have changed?
Dan1234
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Sexual communication

Postby Dan1234 » Sat Jun 20, 2026 7:38 am

Do you plan sexual encounters with your partner?

Do you have regular ‘date nights’?

How do you let each other know that you’re “in the mood”?

How often do you have sex?

Do you communicate in advance what you would like?

What proportion of your encounters involve penetrative sex?
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John Dday
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Re: Sexual communication

Postby John Dday » Sat Jun 20, 2026 10:36 pm

Well there are a lot of questions there. Try to take one topic and do a search for that topic. That is whats good about FT is that it stores all those hundreds of questions. Grab a beer and have relax reading sessions

Talking to our partners is also important.

We like the handwritten note left in a special place.
1955. I have had ED for years. We were planning to go for a Rigi10 in October 2024. Life got in the way (heart attack & stent), so we are now going for injections as a fill-in. 9/2025 More life roadblocks with prostate Cancer:((

LGXDownunder
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Re: Sexual communication

Postby LGXDownunder » Sat Jun 20, 2026 10:54 pm

Dan1234 wrote:Do you plan sexual encounters with your partner?

Partly due to medical issues, and partly for erotic reasons, we prefer to have sex in locations other than the bedroom.
But we have an adult child living with us, so need to plan ahead for when they will be absent.

Do you have regular ‘date nights’?

We go out together regularly and spend every evening together, but not specific date nights as such.
Bear in mind we're both now over 70 and long retired.

How do you let each other know that you’re “in the mood”?

When it comes up just say it out loud.

How often do you have sex?

Three times a week.

Do you communicate in advance what you would like?

We already know what each other likes so don't usually communicate in advance.
But I try and switch things up mid session to spice it up.

What proportion of your encounters involve penetrative sex?

100% of the time, after some extended foreplay.
71, married, Sydney Oz. PC/nerve sparing RRP Mar 2022 caused 100% total ED. Tried pills, Trimix inj, focal shockwave, VED. All failed. Implanted Mar 6 2025 AMS 700 LGX 21cm x 12mm, no RTEs, MS pump, Penoscrotal. Got back to 6.5" BPEL @ 9m. Loving it.


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