Latest Consideration for Easier Sex

[Old Guy]

The swing came out again Saturday morning. I still can't believe that the wife is fine with it. She did mention that come winter we'd need a heater in the room. Guess that means the swing is staying around long term.
She has been having some very intense orgasms since we've been using it. Now that I have the swing adjusted to my height entering her is too easy. I can stand still and move the swing back & forth, or I can hold the swing still and pump. Being able to stand during sex allows me to finish before my back gives out. And my back hasn't been achy all the next day!
It's a win-win situation!

[Randalltx]

The swing came out again Saturday morning. I still can't believe that the wife is fine with it. She did mention that come winter we'd need a heater in the room. Guess that means the swing is staying around long term.
She has been having some very intense orgasms since we've been using it. Now that I have the swing adjusted to my height entering her is too easy. I can stand still and move the swing back & forth, or I can hold the swing still and pump. Being able to stand during sex allows me to finish before my back gives out. And my back hasn't been achy all the next day!
It's a win-win situation!

Now you just showing off. I'm jealous for sure.

[Old Guy]

Now you just showing off. I'm jealous for sure.

Yes, sorry.
I keep plugging this mainly because of the ache it saves my back, not because of the sexual part. (although no complaints there!) Hoping other guys who have severe arthritis in the low back might consider one.

[Randalltx]

Now you just showing off. I'm jealous for sure.

Yes, sorry.
I keep plugging this mainly because of the ache it saves my back, not because of the sexual part. (although no complaints there!) Hoping other guys who have severe arthritis in the low back might consider one.

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I am thrilled for you and your special woman who has found her groove. Keep em coming. So to speak.
Get the right angle for a long enough duration and she might spray you. She would then brag to her girlfriends about you. That would be cool.

[Zoso22]

Well, I went ahead and ordered the swing. Now let's see what the wife thinks of it. Plan to set it up Friday night before she gets home from work. Our utility room is the only place it's going to work so I also ordered some lace curtains and fairy lights. I'll hang them using binder clips to make the room not so "utility" looking.
Report coming next week on her reaction.

Good move.

Did you get the cuff and mask version with the blindlfod? Mine came with cuffs, but in your dreams you know.
Course she didn't want the hitachis either. Now she wants to use it by herself unsupervised. I just want the video.

Wife here is complaining the swing isn't up yet. She is in her "excitable" mindset anticipating the magic. She is now threatening to install it herself.

My wife Loves the hitachi vibrator and she uses them all the time, I have some videos and pics, I can’t upload the videos as the files are to big.

[I’mJustSayin’]

I know this is an older topic, but I just ran across it. As an older couple, a sex swing is a game changer. (Me 72, her 70.)
I have some chronic back pain, she has some hip and knee pain. We had “test driven” several sex slings and swings at a resort that has adult playrooms. Didn’t really care for the slings, but we started looking at swings online. I considered building one, but we found one that we liked. It’s a “Private Euphoria” model from Lonesome Dragon. At the time we bought it, they didn’t have a U.S. distributor. Had to be shipped from Switzerland and pass through US Customs. Easy to install in the basement with exposed floor trusses above. It was great during the “trimix years”. (Until trimix brought the onset of peyronies.) So I’m really looking forward to getting back to that swing more often after implant. Although we still enjoy using it for oral. I have a chair that is just the right height to allow me to enjoy my favorite meal for as long as we want; with no physical strain on either of us.

[andorian]

I know this is an older topic, but I just ran across it. As an older couple, a sex swing is a game changer. (Me 72, her 70.)
I have some chronic back pain, she has some hip and knee pain. We had “test driven” several sex slings and swings at a resort that has adult playrooms. Didn’t really care for the slings, but we started looking at swings online. I considered building one, but we found one that we liked. It’s a “Private Euphoria” model from Lonesome Dragon. At the time we bought it, they didn’t have a U.S. distributor. Had to be shipped from Switzerland and pass through US Customs. Easy to install in the basement with exposed floor trusses above. It was great during the “trimix years”. (Until trimix brought the onset of peyronies.) So I’m really looking forward to getting back to that swing more often after implant. Although we still enjoy using it for oral. I have a chair that is just the right height to allow me to enjoy my favorite meal for as long as we want; with no physical strain on either of us.

It's understandable that men want to restore function in sex and I think it is fantastic what you have achieved against physiological decline, however I was wondering whether focusing more on the objective (of sexual satisfaction for both partners) and less on traditional methods of achieving that, might achieve those objectives more easily and more frequently, with less potential side effects.

I notice your development of the use of vibrators to assist your wife in her orgasm, so I was wondering whether something similar for you might assist in your independent orgasm more easily than with swings and implants. I was reading recently that vibration techniques can help men achieve orgasm, even when they experience erectile difficulty; then there are other techniques such as prostate stimulation that can achieve multiple orgasms without any involvement of the penis at all.

I'm interested in mens viewpoints around how important it is to have traditional sex with original equipment, versus potentially more easily achieving sexual satisfaction via other tools and techniques. How much do the benefits of "natural" sex outweigh ease of achieving sexual satisfaction (and perhaps greater or more frequent sexual satisfaction) via other means?

[John Dday]

Well, all of that was a great read. Motivates me to carry on with my 'master bed conversion'
I managed to purchase a massive King-size timber bed that would be perfect for converting into a romantic 4-poster, with lighting and sheer curtains.
The posts will have thread inserts with beautiful hand screws, everywhere to attach 'stuff' like Rails etc
The canopy will also have an adjustable steel tube system to support, you guessed it, a swing, plus anything else we want to hang up.
Hey, honey, I bought some beautiful rope. Want to try it? Have to brush up on my Knot tieing.
Steampunk meets How To Build a Sex Room

[Old Guy]

This post is older but has a lot of information that may help couples. Glad to see it get revived.
Having issues with sex due to injury, aging or any other reason is why you need to consider options. For us, between her bad knees and my bad back, plus the fact we have both gained weight, sex in bed was getting to be a challenge. Missionary was tough due to belly fat and bad back, doggy was tough because of bad knees, the X position worked until the back gave out, and if we did manage to finish both of us hurt later.
That's when someone on here mentioned a sex swing. I looked them up, Adam & Eve, Amazon, eBay and more places sold them. Came to the conclusion a hanging swing was the best solution. Door swings limited movement it seemed. I ended up buying a hanging swing from Amazon and mounted it in our basement where beams were exposed. The only drawback to that was winter weather made it too cold to use even with a portable heater running. When it did get used though, my back didn't wear out, her knees didn't factor in, and we both had amazing orgasms. She would have multiple orgasms most times.
Just recently we've been looking at a wedge pillow. Some are quite well designed, suggesting a 27° angle for maximum penetration and hitting the G spot. Pricy however. So, on the cheap got an eBay inflatable wedge to try out. Yup, no need to spend a chunk of cash. That thing worked just fine for doggy or missionary. Bed sex was good again.
So never stop having sex because of issues. Find a way, there are many options.