What is considered a small penis?

There is more to sex than an erect penis. How do you maintain your sexuality both for yourself and for your partner? What techniques do you use to give both of you a great, satisfying sex life? How do you explore your own body and sexuality now that the rules have changed?
HeavyMetalFan
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Re: What is considered a small penis?

Postby HeavyMetalFan » Tue Oct 14, 2025 7:49 pm

As others have said, the pelvic fat takes a lot of size away.

I’ve taken my health very seriously, and a part of that has included losing fat. At my fattest I was around 22% body fat. I’m now around 16%, and the difference for me is about half of an inch.

Also VED therapy. Keep the tissues compliant!

Implant2025
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Re: What is considered a small penis?

Postby Implant2025 » Mon Nov 10, 2025 1:32 pm

I'm about 10 months post-op since surgery. I went into surgery with about 6". But due to significant Peyronie's Disease that my surgeon had to straighten out during surgery before placing the implant, I came out with about 5.5". I've gotten a little back with cycling and use.

On the plus side, I now have a dick that's always "up" for it. So definitely not complaining! :D :D
GM(73) ED for past 10 years. Before: 6.0"L, 5.5"G. After (30 days): 5.5"L, 5.25"G. AMS CX MS pump 18cm/17.5cm on 1/29/25 by Dr Clavell in Houston.

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Cdogg737
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Re: What is considered a small penis?

Postby Cdogg737 » Fri Jan 23, 2026 7:44 am

UpNorth wrote:
frank66665 wrote:I opened this post viewtopic.php?f=6&t=26943, but it seems that the smallest penis is mine, or the statistics are wrong, or those with a penis from 10 cm to 16 cm are ashamed to post, there is no participation on this site, even wanting to provide literature that can be useful to those who have and do not have an implant, it seems that very few, (the usual) participate


I have read that some posters believe this site is run by men with large cocks. FYI.

Me, although I will be in the average group is just over 7 weeks post op so I don’t even post on the polls that ask if I lost size etc.

I was actually thinking that having a post like “dick of the day” may be something to think of if it’s related to members that do not fall under not the large category.
However it’s worded needs thought out well as not only do we have to go through Ed we go through it without a large dick and when someone chastises size it’s not cool.


I think no matter where it is, online or real world, larger guys are generally going to be more confident about others seeing their penis. Guys who are smaller...or even just believe they are smaller will generally be more shy. So I think the overall outcome for everyone is that we tend to see mostly dicks on the larger end of the scale even though the statistics suggest that they are not the average.
ED for entire life, PDE-5s worked in my 20s, then began to fail. Caverject worked but often unavailable.
Implanted with Titan touch 23.2.21 20cm cyl 1cm RTE.
Revision due to crossover done on 21.3.22.

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Re: What is considered a small penis?

Postby KingsIndian5 » Thu Mar 26, 2026 9:59 pm

Hello everyone. I'm 65 yrs old and new here. My long-time girl friend has over the years complained about my penis size. I agree that when its flaccid its small but when its erect in my opinion its average size. Well let me know your thoughts.
Thank you

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Re: What is considered a small penis?

Postby Kimball » Fri Mar 27, 2026 10:33 am

KingsIndian5 wrote:Hello everyone. I'm 65 yrs old and new here. My long-time girl friend has over the years complained about my penis size. I agree that when its flaccid its small but when its erect in my opinion its average size. Well let me know your thoughts.
Thank you

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I agree that it looks to be average sized. You can check it by using the medically accepted way, below.
Tip: like old blues song says, when you have sex, do it "First in the middle, then from side to side". :D
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I'm in my early 70's. Serious problems with ED started in my early 60's. ED drugs were eventually not effective enough. Aquired VED pump and constriction rings in 2024 which provides usable erections for sexual activity.

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Re: What is considered a small penis?

Postby Martin6469 » Sun Mar 29, 2026 1:27 pm

KingsIndian: I'm your size; early in our marriage my wife said it's too small for her, in a fit of frustration, after a drink or two. She immediately apologized but it was actually good to know her strong feelings. We had several long talks and it came out that she had gotten used to larger sizes in previous relationships.

What to do? It was obvious - I went to the nearest sex toy store and got a large dildo, with accurate detail. It looks like a large circumsized penis. I told her to imagine that it's a boyfriend, put it in, and rub her clit. I hold it in all the way while she masturbates and fantasizes and she has a great orgasm every time. Then it's my turn in her. She gets up happy - I get up happy.
Age 80 in 2025. On testosterone replacement due to hypothalamus malfunction. (Attention depressed guys: low testosterone is a cause.) Healthy health nut but ED due to getting old. Like to keep enough cardiovascular ability to thrust for 30 min.


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