Partenr for my wife

There is more to sex than an erect penis. How do you maintain your sexuality both for yourself and for your partner? What techniques do you use to give both of you a great, satisfying sex life? How do you explore your own body and sexuality now that the rules have changed?
Scott59
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Partenr for my wife

Postby Scott59 » Wed Dec 03, 2025 10:28 am

Has anyone ever thought about finding a sex partner for their wife? Unable to get erection or cum
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Mijudac79
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Re: Partenr for my wife

Postby Mijudac79 » Wed Dec 03, 2025 10:49 am

Yes! I offered it, but she declined.
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Old Guy
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Re: Partenr for my wife

Postby Old Guy » Wed Dec 03, 2025 12:15 pm

When my ED was in full no erection mode I asked the wife if she needed a substitute. She declined. That to me spells love.
There are different ways to satisfy a female when your dick doesn't work.
I was already seeking an answer and began to use Viagra. Then Trimix, then Quadmix. As those methods failed the only answer was implant. Found out about them through an ad in a Las Vegas newspaper. Still wish I had been able to skip the pills and injections and go straight to surgery.
Nov. 8, 2019
5+ years, Coloplast Titan OTR
Married 37 years to my beautiful young bride
Always here to answer questions if you PM me
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AKJess
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Re: Partenr for my wife

Postby AKJess » Wed Dec 03, 2025 4:56 pm

Check your DM
56, married 33 years to an amazing woman, BPH, PD (47deg down to ~25deg), current Xiaflex treatment with Pentoxifylline & Cialis. Penile modeling with Restore X. Occasional ED triggered from pain response during intercourse.
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Kodixx
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Re: Partenr for my wife

Postby Kodixx » Thu Dec 04, 2025 3:54 pm

Scott59, I'm really sorry to hear of your situation. I'm sure you know there are many ways to bring a female to climax, over and over, without PIV. If you haven't already done so, I would encourage you to go down that path.

- Chuck
Scott59 wrote:Has anyone ever thought about finding a sex partner for their wife? Unable to get erection or cum
Feb 2025 58yo, 38 w/ greatest wife ever
AMS CX, Tenacio, Dr Broghammer (excellent) pre-op L:7", post-op @ 9 mo L: 6.5=>7.0" G: 5.5=>5.75"
2wks pain, cycling/sex @ 7wks, minor pain until 10wks, felt like 'new normal' sex @ 16wks
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