Masturbating/Getting Off With a Flaccid Dick

There is more to sex than an erect penis. How do you maintain your sexuality both for yourself and for your partner? What techniques do you use to give both of you a great, satisfying sex life? How do you explore your own body and sexuality now that the rules have changed?
pdn123
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Re: Masturbating/Getting Off With a Flaccid Dick

Postby pdn123 » Thu Jul 17, 2025 6:12 pm

that c ring is "Xialla" I have used the ring with sum success. Had problems with the velcro sticking to my back. Used old jock waist band sewed a patch of velcro to it problem solved.

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Re: Masturbating/Getting Off With a Flaccid Dick

Postby lrgoodger » Wed Dec 03, 2025 9:03 am

Innerlight wrote:Where to begin? I've always considered myself highly sexed. In reality, probably no more than most fellas. I’ve just been aware of my orgasmic capability since a young age. I experienced my first orgasm (spontaneous) at age six while attempting to climb to the top of our backyard swing-set. The tension in my little body from having my legs clamped around the pole and trying to pull myself to the top triggered that first orgasm.


Interesting. I had a similar experience when I was seven. You are the first male I have ever heard of who had this happen besides me. I told a few guys about it over the years and no one else ever had that experience. My wife said it happened to her in gym class when they were climbing ropes. Mine happened when I learned how to shinny up a small tree at seven years old. I quickly climbed the tree again trying for a repeat, to no avail. I never tried again. My next one was not until I was twelve when I woke up one morning with an erection. I reached down and touched it and it exploded. Wow! I tried with success again the next morning. It was pretty much every day after that. It was almost a year before I finally got a single drop of crystal clear pre-ejaculate at the tip afterward. It was some time later before it started turning cloudy from sperm.

It was many years later before I discovered my nipples. I don't remember exactly how it came about, but it didn't take long to figure out how greatly nipple stimulation enhanced the sexual experience right up to orgasm. I was never able to orgasm from nipple stimulation alone, but I often wondered if any other men could. I have been fortunate in that all three of my wives did an excellent job of lightly rubbing them for me when I was in the missionary position. Wow! Getting my nipples touched would always give me an erection in nothing flat. Now at age 74 with varying ED difficulties, nipple stimulation has not decreased in sensitivity at all like penis sensitivity has.

Viagra worked for three years and now injections work somtimes. No matter how carefully I inject, I cannot get results every time. These sporadic results make it very difficult to zero in on the correct dose without a priapism now and then. Thinking it didn't work because you didn't use enough results in increasing the dose, then when it does work you used too much and get a priapism. Bummer.

I think my problems are related to pelvic floor muscles. When I strain toward orgasm, the erection goes away. I've not religiously tried exercises to see if they help because the Viagra worked fine for a long time and the injections work when they work. I can still get there if I can keep it hard.

Has anyone solved their ED strictly with pelvic floor exercises?


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