If you would get rid of that fat paid is hiding in it would appear larger.Asquared65 wrote:I am curious as to what is considered a small penis. Erect I’m around 4 - 4 1/2 inches, making me think I am on the smaller side. Pictures I see on here make most men’s penises seem to be 7” +. Wondering if most men are 7” or more like it seems on here.
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Asquared65 wrote:I am curious as to what is considered a small penis. Erect I’m around 4 - 4 1/2 inches, making me think I am on the smaller side. Pictures I see on here make most men’s penises seem to be 7” +. Wondering if most men are 7” or more like it seems on here.
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i learned in nursing school that 3" is adequate for penetrative sex. in my experience men always seem to focus on length while women focus more on girth.
If you want a bigger dick, lose weight. Your abdominal fat pad hides part of your length. I recently went from 210lb to 180lb and went from 5.5" to 6" in length. If I lose another 20 lbs, I'd regain another 1/4".
Unless you're already pretty lean there's an excellent opportunity by dieting to make your third leg a bit longer. If you're already lean, just keep beating it up like she owes you money.

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I can attest having a huge dick can cause issues. Even being on the small side, you never have to worry about her jaw hurting, Never have to worry about impaling her cervix, Never have to worry about causing your partner pain because your girth is too much. There are women out there that are size-queens. But they are far and few in between.
I was lucky to meet my wife (who is a size queen) But before she had a full hysterectomy, i was impaling her cervix in certain positions. And that just turns them off completely lol. Also you think that women love huge men, But in reality ive had many women say they could never take my dick, not that i was trying to fuck them. it was just something that came up in our friend group.
And i'm gonna be honest here. 99% of the women out there probably never even had a big dick. Its really porn that blurs the lines of what is real and what is fake. They have different camera lenses, angles, etc etc.
if you are really wondering where you fit in this world put your measurements into here
https://calcsd.info/
Tells you everything you need to know.
But i wouldnt worry about it. Ive never met a woman who got as far as fully naked and then decided she wasn't gonna have sex with a guy because his penis looked small. Maybe he can offer other things if you get my drift.
I was lucky to meet my wife (who is a size queen) But before she had a full hysterectomy, i was impaling her cervix in certain positions. And that just turns them off completely lol. Also you think that women love huge men, But in reality ive had many women say they could never take my dick, not that i was trying to fuck them. it was just something that came up in our friend group.
And i'm gonna be honest here. 99% of the women out there probably never even had a big dick. Its really porn that blurs the lines of what is real and what is fake. They have different camera lenses, angles, etc etc.
if you are really wondering where you fit in this world put your measurements into here
https://calcsd.info/
Tells you everything you need to know.
But i wouldnt worry about it. Ive never met a woman who got as far as fully naked and then decided she wasn't gonna have sex with a guy because his penis looked small. Maybe he can offer other things if you get my drift.
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Suffered from Combined arterial insufficiency and corporo-venous occlusive erectile dysfunction and Peyronie disease
Had a 35 degree curve
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I have what is considered a small penis (4.5”x5.0”) and have always been aware of that. But, as others have mentioned, what is important is how your partner feels. When my current wife and I had what we call our first “sex date”, over 12 hours she had over 10 orgasms! We’ve never had a discussion about my penis size and she has told her girlfriends what an amazing lover I am! I’m so lucky I found the right partner.
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Thanks Vita
Never seen that before calculator before, feel pretty good right now lol Im not going to hurt anyone.
Never seen that before calculator before, feel pretty good right now lol Im not going to hurt anyone.
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This seems to be an eternal question (for guys). In my young single days I once asked a woman what size I was; she replied exasperatingly, "Why does every guy ask me that!"
Well, congratulations texcal56! I've given orgasms to women with my similarly-sized penis, but not often, and not to my wife. And unluckily, she's one of the few women who get nothing from oral sex. On top of that, before meeting me, she got used to being filled by bigger-than-me guys (for which I congratulated her for her good luck!).
Guys in my position might consider our sex activities. I got her a few large dildos. After foreplay, I rub one at her opening and encourage her to push it in and rub her clit. When it's partly in, I hold it straight and push it in further while she concentrates on masturbating. I hold it steady and she goes into a fantasy. She has a nice orgasm and then likes to retain the dildo for 20-30 minutes for that "filled feeling." Then she says, "Ok, take it out - it's your turn." After I'm done, we repeat with another, slightly bigger, dildo. While each dildo is "working," I tell her to imagine that it's a young virile boyfriend. I find it fascinating to hear what goes on in her fantasies, so after a rest, I encourage her to say what each "boyfriend" did. We get up happy and satisfied.
She's my age, 79, once considered "too old" for sex, but she gets perfect hormone replacement therapy.
Well, congratulations texcal56! I've given orgasms to women with my similarly-sized penis, but not often, and not to my wife. And unluckily, she's one of the few women who get nothing from oral sex. On top of that, before meeting me, she got used to being filled by bigger-than-me guys (for which I congratulated her for her good luck!).
Guys in my position might consider our sex activities. I got her a few large dildos. After foreplay, I rub one at her opening and encourage her to push it in and rub her clit. When it's partly in, I hold it straight and push it in further while she concentrates on masturbating. I hold it steady and she goes into a fantasy. She has a nice orgasm and then likes to retain the dildo for 20-30 minutes for that "filled feeling." Then she says, "Ok, take it out - it's your turn." After I'm done, we repeat with another, slightly bigger, dildo. While each dildo is "working," I tell her to imagine that it's a young virile boyfriend. I find it fascinating to hear what goes on in her fantasies, so after a rest, I encourage her to say what each "boyfriend" did. We get up happy and satisfied.
She's my age, 79, once considered "too old" for sex, but she gets perfect hormone replacement therapy.
Age 80 in 2025. On testosterone replacement due to hypothalamus malfunction. (Attention depressed guys: low testosterone is a cause.) Healthy health nut but ED due to getting old. Like to keep enough cardiovascular ability to thrust for 30 min.
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Implant2025 wrote:Asquared65 wrote:I am curious as to what is considered a small penis. Erect I’m around 4 - 4 1/2 inches, making me think I am on the smaller side. Pictures I see on here make most men’s penises seem to be 7” +. Wondering if most men are 7” or more like it seems on here.
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i learned in nursing school that 3" is adequate for penetrative sex. in my experience men always seem to focus on length while women focus more on girth.
Avg girth is 11.66 cm or 4.59 in
Just an fyi
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I opened this post viewtopic.php?f=6&t=26943, but it seems that the smallest penis is mine, or the statistics are wrong, or those with a penis from 10 cm to 16 cm are ashamed to post, there is no participation on this site, even wanting to provide literature that can be useful to those who have and do not have an implant, it seems that very few, (the usual) participate
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frank66665 wrote:I opened this post viewtopic.php?f=6&t=26943, but it seems that the smallest penis is mine, or the statistics are wrong, or those with a penis from 10 cm to 16 cm are ashamed to post, there is no participation on this site, even wanting to provide literature that can be useful to those who have and do not have an implant, it seems that very few, (the usual) participate
I have read that some posters believe this site is run by men with large cocks. FYI.
Me, although I will be in the average group is just over 7 weeks post op so I don’t even post on the polls that ask if I lost size etc.
I was actually thinking that having a post like “dick of the day” may be something to think of if it’s related to members that do not fall under not the large category.
However it’s worded needs thought out well as not only do we have to go through Ed we go through it without a large dick and when someone chastises size it’s not cool.
62. ? Asked. What is your sex life like? I’m a Romantic She’s a Nymphomaniac.
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Penoscrotal W/ Scrotoplasty
Friday the 13th of June, 2025
Ed due to chronic pain, arterial insufiency, etc.
Coloplast Titan IPP
NYC by The Man The Myth The Legend Dr Eid
Penoscrotal W/ Scrotoplasty
Friday the 13th of June, 2025
Ed due to chronic pain, arterial insufiency, etc.
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UpNorth wrote:I have read that some posters believe this site is run by men with large cocks. FYI.
I believe a lot of guys are full of baloney. Are there guys way on the left of the bell curve? Yes. Are there a bunch more guys with complexes and no reason not to fib to anonymous strangers? Yes, too.
Middle-aged SGM with lifelong ED. AMS 700 CX 21cm + 3.5cm RTEs implanted January 2025 and explanted due to infection February 2025, with salvage. Revision to Coloplast Titan 24cm + 1cm RTE July 2025.
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