rschweiger wrote:Hey Andy,
I just ran across your topic here,very interesting.
I would always tel my girls when ever I knew it was going in that direction
My god I HATED those f'n talks I always felt so bad.
But I don't have to have them any more as now I am implanted.got implanted 9 mos ago at age 41.....
And trust me my brother those days are not gone once you find your solution you'll be suprised at the confidence that return......some may even call it cocky
I have one girlfriend that says I act like a man whore now....lol.
I say I lived four years not feeling like a man or even a being. I'm gonna strut around for a little while.
Best of luck on finding your solution and hopefully landing the new girl.
Thanks for your thoughts.
The confidence thing: I just have this feeling that she -- or any other woman -- will laugh (maybe not literally) when I tell her. I know it's mostly just my very pessimistic mind playing games with me, but the thought is still there. But as Jim(?) said above, just explain to her that I'm still recovering from PC surgery, which is true.
Update on Miss Perfect Pelvis:
After kissing me on the cheek twice in as many days, I resolved to get the jump on her, and give her a little surprise in return: I was going to plant one on her lips. So the next day I was talking to her AND SHE KISSES ME ON THE LIPS! And the next day she did it again. WTF? Ok, I see the checkered flag . . .
So today I was there and was going to ask her point-blank if she was involved with anyone -- before we get into hugging, which seems to be next on the list, haha. I've been wanting to know for 3 months now, and none of the guys who work there knew for sure. But she wasn't there, she had the day off. Grrrr . . .
Oh well, I will see her Monday.