gonna end my life soon

What are your fears? Ideas? Hints? to coping with ED. What helps you with your mental game? How are relationships affected?
westerntown
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gonna end my life soon

Postby westerntown » Sat Aug 20, 2022 8:39 pm

before you say anything, ive already heard it. if you really wanna help, do it for me so itll look like a homicide
Late 2020, penile injury. Hard flaccid like symptoms since. Flaccid Hourglassing. always turtled. Sever loss of rigidity. Unable to have penetrative sex with girlfriend. Cialis does not help. 21yo, Ca

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Re: gonna end my life soon

Postby Anonymous FT Member » Sat Aug 20, 2022 10:45 pm

westerntown wrote:before you say anything, ive already heard it. if you really wanna help, do it for me so itll look like a homicide


I'd like to help if you will allow it. Your situation parallels many of the guys that are here. ED is not something totally new, and many men are dealing with it. Please take your time and be strong.

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Re: gonna end my life soon

Postby Wiggles123 » Sat Aug 20, 2022 11:52 pm

Western, you need to get professional therapy for your mental depression. Sure, you do have terrible issues, but lets be honest: You are alive and still have much to thank God for. You aren't dying of cancer, a paraplegic, hideously facially deformed, unable to communicate, and on and on. Many people have issues much worse than yours and mine. You need to find what beauty you still have, what great things you can contribute to society and those that love you. Threaening your demise does not help you, and drags you further into darkness.

Find the good and immerse yourself in it. If all else fails, get the implant and move on. Stop trying to ruin all others lives n here.

You have value and a purpose. Find it, relish in it, and make a great life.
AMS700 CX 21cm with 3 RTE 4-2019 by Dr Natale - failed 5-2021. Revision 6-2021 with issue (scrotal hematoma and infection). Dr. Ryan Terlecki revision 3-28-2022 (AMS700 CX 21cm with 1.5cm RTE). Cylinder failure at 18 months. 24cm AMS700 CX 11-29-2023.

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Re: gonna end my life soon

Postby tonyareias » Sun Aug 21, 2022 11:38 pm

Sex is not everything.

Look for a professional, fixing your depression will help with your problem.

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ShouldIwait
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ED and depression...probably the two loneliest diseases

Postby ShouldIwait » Mon Aug 22, 2022 1:20 am

You're in a good place with people who have been through what you are going through...through, as in it WILL pass.

And I'm not talking about just ED. A LARGE percentage of men on here are impotent, at least in part, because of their own issues with depression and the side effects of those meds. ED and depression...probably to two loneliest diseases. Our uptight culture won't talk about either of these so, many people, like yourself, are left to suffer alone.

But you're not alone. You reached out to us. On some level you know that we can help. And Doctors can help with depression AND the ED. Read this site. Take comfort in all the great stories of men overcoming ED and having the best sex of their lives!! And please reach out to professionals for the depression as well. Make a deal with yourself to give it an honest effort. Other options will always be there--no harm in at least trying some meds or therapy?

PM me if you want. I've suffered AND OVERCOME both of what you are going through
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57, ED 10-15 years. Pills, Bi, Tri then Quad Mix Injections- all slowly less effective. IPP July 2022 (Penscrotal, Titan, 22 + 1) @6mo back to OEM--7.2"L x 5.5"w

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Re: ED and depression...probably to two loneliest diseases

Postby Anonymous FT Member » Mon Aug 22, 2022 10:51 pm

ShouldIwait wrote:A LARGE percentage of men on here are impotent, at least in part, because of their own issues with depression


Yes I think overall a large percentage of men are dealing with some form of ED. The guys on FT aren't the only ones. It seems to be very common and should be looked at with more understanding. I think a lot of it has to do with stress, environmental factors, and lifestyle. I think the big elephant in the room is environmental and nobody really talks about that. There so many toxins out there that are known hormone disrupters. We're all breathing the same air, drinking the same waters, and eating the same foods. You think that all these guys with ED is just coincidental? I think not!

Norrr813
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Re: gonna end my life soon

Postby Norrr813 » Thu Oct 06, 2022 11:25 am

I have Penile venous leakage. I feel how you’re feeling most of the time. I had to make my self realize there’s more to life than just sex. And sometimes I have my moments where I’m locked in my house with my dog and don’t see or talk to anyone for days at a time. It’s been a rollercoaster honestly. All I can say is don’t give up man. Find your passion and pursue it.
I’m a car guy so I started working on a project car and it takes my mind off my issue. Find something you love and do it! Good luck brother.

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Re: gonna end my life soon

Postby abhishek26 » Thu Oct 06, 2022 1:55 pm

tonyareias wrote:Sex is not everything.

Look for a professional, fixing your depression will help with your problem.

Fuck off with that comment bro! If anything, ED only demonstrates that sex is essentially everything unfortunately.
24 y/o suffering from sudden onset of severe ED (from previously having no ED at all). perfectly normal penile doppler and blood/hormone/urine test results. UPDATE: diagnosed with tight pelvic floor dysfunction :roll:

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Re: gonna end my life soon

Postby needsomehope » Thu Oct 06, 2022 2:25 pm

abhishek26 wrote:
tonyareias wrote:Sex is not everything.

Look for a professional, fixing your depression will help with your problem.

Fuck off with that comment bro! If anything, ED only demonstrates that sex is essentially everything unfortunately.


It truly is just a dumb as fuck thing to say. Sex is literally on the base level of Maslows Hierarchy. Humans are NOT meant to go without it and it does immense and irreparable damage when it’s denied to you.

So many men walking this earth with lifelong impotence or micropenises or other sexual trauma just barely holding on. Existing. Waiting to die.

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Re: gonna end my life soon

Postby AmansinCali » Thu Oct 06, 2022 3:29 pm

This guy has not been on FT since he posted this, he is either a troll, is gone or doesn't want to respond to us.
Used Viagra & Cialis until lost vision in one eye due to AION, therefore can never use pills again, then tri-mix 1 1/2 years until unreliable. Implanted 9/20/22 at 77 years old by Dr. Yafi, UC Irvine. Married 55 years wife 76. 20cm Coloplast Titan.


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