Just want it too end

What are your fears? Ideas? Hints? to coping with ED. What helps you with your mental game? How are relationships affected?
Gavalar09
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Just want it too end

Postby Gavalar09 » Wed Feb 02, 2022 4:40 am

I'm sick of going through ED.

I've tried to chance my diet, workout, took vitamin D tables, cialis 5mg isn't having much of an effect.
I've given up porn.

I really tried everything naturally but nothing no longer helps and it sucks. My libido has now completely gone, I get no morning wood, and my erections with my girl are strong semis.

Its so frustrating. 28 and having to go through this in what should he my prime years. I've ruled out so many things yet it continues...

I don't know what to do anymore. I just want to give up...
28 years old. VL symptoms. No morning wood for years.

JustAnotherYouth
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Re: Just want it too end

Postby JustAnotherYouth » Wed Feb 02, 2022 5:31 am

I'd recommend to go see a doctor and get it sorted out! Go as far as you need to go, if injections work and you're happy with them then great if not go for the implant!

Gavalar09
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Re: Just want it too end

Postby Gavalar09 » Wed Feb 02, 2022 5:40 am

JustAnotherYouth wrote:I'd recommend to go see a doctor and get it sorted out! Go as far as you need to go, if injections work and you're happy with them then great if not go for the implant!


I really feel like I've been robbed of a normal sex life.
28 years old. VL symptoms. No morning wood for years.

Al1962
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Re: Just want it too end

Postby Al1962 » Wed Feb 02, 2022 9:31 am

You have been robbed. Now fight to make things right.
Born 1962. Married 21 yrs. Single since 2018. Diabetic ED has taken the fun. Began daily Cialis 2.5mg and hesitant to find/disappoint a new partner. Song, Beatles,"Let It Be".

dg_moore
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Re: Just want it too end

Postby dg_moore » Wed Feb 02, 2022 10:48 am

Like it says in my signature, life is not the way it's supposed to be: It's the way it is. See a urologist with experience in men's sexual health and see where that takes you.
Dave, 80, Maryland - Implant (Titan) 2008 by Dr. Andrew Kramer (failed Sept 2020) - never used due to a stroke that, among other things, ended my sex life.
Life is not the way it's supposed to be, it's the way it is.

Gavalar09
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Re: Just want it too end

Postby Gavalar09 » Thu Feb 03, 2022 11:50 am

dg_moore wrote:Like it says in my signature, life is not the way it's supposed to be: It's the way it is. See a urologist with experience in men's sexual health and see where that takes you.


Confused by your quote at the bottom. You had an implant for 12 years that you use?
28 years old. VL symptoms. No morning wood for years.

slipnslider
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Re: Just want it too end

Postby slipnslider » Thu Feb 03, 2022 1:32 pm

Gavalar09 wrote:I'm sick of going through ED.

I've tried to chance my diet, workout, took vitamin D tables, cialis 5mg isn't having much of an effect.
I've given up porn.

I really tried everything naturally but nothing no longer helps and it sucks. My libido has now completely gone, I get no morning wood, and my erections with my girl are strong semis.

Its so frustrating. 28 and having to go through this in what should he my prime years. I've ruled out so many things yet it continues...

I don't know what to do anymore. I just want to give up...


My ED problems started about your age. Probably caused by either adult circumcision or hair loss medication. A few embarrassing sexual failures with different girls led my to become withdrawn and depressed. I stopped wanting to go out and socialize because I didn't want to feel that embarrassment again. It took a few years before I sought medical help. Pills helped me have reliable sex again. I started dating and had a couple girlfriends. Pills lost effectiveness and the side effects became annoying so I moved to injections. They work great even if they're not very convenient. Now I have the most gorgeous girl I've ever been with, she know about my ED problem and my injections and she's fine with it.

There are solutions out there for you that will lead to happier times. You just have to have enough fight in you to find them instead of giving up. Yeah it's not "fair" but there are many worse medical problems that many people have that probably feel even less fair. At least there are solutions to your problem.
44, ED problems began around age 28 when I was on finasteride for hair loss, and also got circumcised so I lost a lot of sensation. Pills gave me bad headaches and other side effects. Now using trimix 30/1/20. So far so good.

Gavalar09
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Re: Just want it too end

Postby Gavalar09 » Thu Feb 03, 2022 1:49 pm

How bad was your ED?

Right now I experience no morning wood, even with 5mg cialis. I'm extremely worried I may have Venous Leak?
28 years old. VL symptoms. No morning wood for years.

68CatFan
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Re: Just want it too end

Postby 68CatFan » Thu Feb 03, 2022 2:02 pm

There are several young men on here who've had implants installed recently and are loving life again. So, why are you not following their lead?
Fifty-one years old. ED started at age forty. I took Cialis for eight years and used Trimix for almost three. Implanted 12/6/22 by Dr. Jonathan Clavell. AMS 700CX 21cm.

Gavalar09
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Re: Just want it too end

Postby Gavalar09 » Thu Feb 03, 2022 2:18 pm

68CatFan wrote:There are several young men on here who've had implants installed recently and are loving life again. So, why are you not following their lead?


Not managed to see a uro yet
28 years old. VL symptoms. No morning wood for years.


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