alfa88 wrote:It's not as if she totally cut me off but as of late it feels like she's doing me a favor instead of us mutually enjoying each other. I got one last hoorah 2 nights before surgery but I've been following orders to abstain for 6 weeks. At week 5 it seems like 5 months. For sure I'm going to go slow with my rebuild. One Alfa Jr. is probably going to be tender and two I want to savor quenching my thirst
After pregnancy and breastfeeding, women often lose their libido and it can take a year to return, at which point they often find they need to relearn how to enjoy sex again.