My fiance won't me

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QuestionGuy
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Re: My fiance won't me

Postby QuestionGuy » Sun Jan 13, 2019 1:58 am

I knew the surgeon would "hit it and quit it" as soon as he was introduced into the story. I also predicted Rhonda would reappear before I got to the end. The surgeon is actually the hero in this story for having the horse sense to quickly evaluate Rhonda and size her up : as only worthy of a "short term relationship" and not "long term commitment". .....and LostSheep: NO. "your love" would not have transformed your "daughter of Satan" into a completely different human being. We are all lucky when these types of women try to monkey branch to some other dude early on in the relationship (before marriage and children) ....but when it happens it is generally one of the most painful things you can go thru because frequently these types of women are very accomplished at making your feel like your the center of their world and that you just found your "stepford wife dream-girl". Its their "career skill" , and once they move on - they generally move on fast, and go cold, leaving you wondering what the hell just happened. I hope the OP is still around and was able to read that very very cool story.
Age 55. Diagnosed with “Post Finasteride Syndrome” and Peyronies in 2007. Initially erections were good, but there was numbness. Now erections are compromised, but good sensitivity. See Dr. Irwin Goldstein. On Clomiphene- Arimidex – Cabergoline.

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Re: My fiance won't me

Postby DaveKell » Sun Jan 13, 2019 7:26 am

QuestionGuy wrote:but when it happens it is generally one of the most painful things you can go thru because frequently these types of women are very accomplished at making your feel like your the center of their world and that you just found your "stepford wife dream-girl". Its their "career skill" , and once they move on - they generally move on fast, and go cold, leaving you wondering what the hell just happened. I hope the OP is still around and was able to read that very very cool story.

Perfect assessment. No truer words ever written.
Became DaveKell 2.0 on July 18th with Dr. Allen Morey in Dallas, TX. AMS 700 CX implant. 18cm with 5.5 RTE's.

dawnoftime
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Re: My fiance won't me

Postby dawnoftime » Sun Jan 13, 2019 10:15 am

DaveKell wrote: I traded in a daughter of satan for a heavenly angel residing on earth.


DaveKell wrote: her son was bald and the size of a sumo wrestler. The best part was seeing how the years had not been kind to her. Those once perfect boobs were now soccer balls around her ankles and to quote Jim Croce's song Roller Derby Queen, "she was built like a 'frigerator with a head".


You know what, having ED has many negatives, and having to come on this site and be exposed to this everyday misogyny is becoming one of them!

This woman broke your heart, and I understand that. But the daughter of Satan, really? Putting down her children like that?

And then 100% support from the moderator:

Larry10625 wrote: It pisses me off A LOT when I hear that women dump guys for money, better looking, bigger dicks, etc, and I always hope that they get what the deserve in the end, I don't even know Rhonda and I don't like her. Thanks for sharing, that story just made my day. :)

Larry


Aren't women allowed to make sexual decisions based on whatever metric they want? They deserve to be punished or something?
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QuestionGuy
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Re: My fiance won't me

Postby QuestionGuy » Sun Jan 13, 2019 12:00 pm

DawnOfTime: Yes, women are free to change relationships using whatever criteria they want. Rhonda clearly broke no laws here.

- But the surgeon was also free to "pumpANDdump" Rhonda.

- Dave was also free to reject Rhonda later when her value went down as his went up.

- LostSheep is free to observe the satan girl from afar and count his blessings.

When a pimp makes a girl believe the two of them are soulmates and then has her sell her body and give him the money (once shes under his spell) : Every guy who posted here about Rhonda would probably volunteer to throw the switch on the electric chair for that pimp. Clearly we only know a bit about this and have to infer some things, but it sounds like Rhonda saw some potential long term provisioning in Dave (student) so she led him on and allowed him to get that "soulmate thing" that the pimps use ...but then the surgeon came along (bird-in-hand) and dropped Dave like a "hot potato"

Rhonda is not so much "being punished" , she is receiving the consequences of her behavior. The "use or be used" philosophy of life usually works out this way.
Age 55. Diagnosed with “Post Finasteride Syndrome” and Peyronies in 2007. Initially erections were good, but there was numbness. Now erections are compromised, but good sensitivity. See Dr. Irwin Goldstein. On Clomiphene- Arimidex – Cabergoline.

dawnoftime
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Re: My fiance won't me

Postby dawnoftime » Sun Jan 13, 2019 12:48 pm

This woman went out with someone in her 20s for six months. She then met someone else who she preferred - for whatever reason - and left the guy she was with. This is a non story.

The only story here is that DaveKell got his heart broken and he has every right to feel emotional etc. about that and want to tell that story.

The woman involved is not even relevant. She deserves no karma or whatever else you are suggesting. She deserves a happy and fulfilling life just like anyone else does.

Comparing a woman that changes her mind about who she wants as a romantic partner to a pimp that manipulates and uses people! I don't even have a response.
34. ED forever. Looking at an implant next year.

QuestionGuy
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Re: My fiance won't me

Postby QuestionGuy » Sun Jan 13, 2019 1:25 pm

Definition of Deserve: to have earned something or be given something because of your actions or qualities.

Which of Rhonda's actions in the story caused her to earn anything other than what she got? Its not so much about Karma as it is that behavior has consequences. Obviously we infer much from the story, but at best Rhonda became the architect of her own misery when the surgeon gave her a taste of her own medicine. Being a single mom is no cakewalk, and it sounds like Dave would have stepped up and been a great husband/provider. If you think a single mom is not on the lookout for "the long term provisioning guy", you have much to learn.

You are right about the pimp analogy though. It is ridiculous. Pimps account for less than 1% of 1% of the population. Hypergomous women account for about 50% of the population.
Age 55. Diagnosed with “Post Finasteride Syndrome” and Peyronies in 2007. Initially erections were good, but there was numbness. Now erections are compromised, but good sensitivity. See Dr. Irwin Goldstein. On Clomiphene- Arimidex – Cabergoline.


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