Psychological impotence and how to fix it

What are your fears? Ideas? Hints? to coping with ED. What helps you with your mental game? How are relationships affected?
EdwardUSA
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Psychological impotence and how to fix it

Postby EdwardUSA » Fri Apr 01, 2022 9:37 pm

Hello all, I am fairly new to the site and this is my first post. I am age 57, an have been taking Viagra for the last 20 years with good results, until recently. I met someone new and could not perform well with her even though she is about 25 years younger than me. She is decent looking and has a good body. I have been worried that the V quit working and/or I simply could not perform anymore. So I decided to do an experiment. I popped 50 mg V and went to a local strip club. Three young women danced for me at the club. The first one was okay looking, good personality, busty, but a bit chunky. My penis responded to her for two songs. Okay erection. The second girl was pretty, busty, tall, but was a bit chunky and not really my type. She also had a bit of an attitude. My penis did not respond to her at all. Nada. Zero. Waste of time and money. The third girl to dance for me was pretty, busty, firm, petite, and sexy. Great personality. I was a raging bull with her for 5 songs. Rock hard erection. I tell you this story to illustrate a point: ERECTIONS ARE OFTEN PSYCHOLOGICAL. STRONG CHEMISTRY WITH YOUR PARTNER IS SO IMPORTANT. AROUSAL MUST HAPPEN IN MIND FOR GREAT SEX. I had three young, naked women dance for me with very different results with each woman. I have concluded that I am simply not attracted to my new partner. The chemistry is just not there. The Viagra still works, and my penis still works IF I get the right female that I a super attracted to. There might be countless men out there feeling hopeless with their erection problems but really just need a partner that really excites them.

Martin6469
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Re: Psychological impotence and how to fix it

Postby Martin6469 » Thu Apr 07, 2022 9:57 pm

Exactly my experience when I started my sex life over fifty years ago. I had to have a girl with my thin body type! Freud was right - our subconsciousness controls us. :|
Age 77 in 2022. On testosterone replacement due to hypothalamus malfunction. (Attention depressed guys: low testosterone is a cause.) Healthy health nut but ED due to getting old. Like to keep enough cardiovascular ability to thrust for 30 min.

nightfae
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Re: Psychological impotence and how to fix it

Postby nightfae » Wed Jun 29, 2022 9:54 pm

Partially yes, but it can be influenced if you work a bit on it. Psychological erectile dysfunction is almost always treatable, much like erectile dysfunction brought on by physical health problems. You should be aware, though, that treating psychological ED isn't always as straightforward as popping a pill before bed. You can buy the pills online as well from https://sterkereu.com/erectiestoornissen/kamagra-gel, they are selling only the best medicine with active substance which really helps.
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PSSDorAmINormal
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Re: Psychological impotence and how to fix it

Postby PSSDorAmINormal » Fri Jul 01, 2022 8:36 pm

Can you guys still get erect if you are single?
SWM/never married. 39 years and not experienced. Injuries/trauma at young age due to lack of guidance and good sex ed. Low libido, loss of sensitivity/numbness. Possible PD and probable PSSD. No tests or doppler. Offered tadalafil, clomid and sildenafil

PSSDorAmINormal
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Re: Psychological impotence and how to fix it

Postby PSSDorAmINormal » Sun Jul 03, 2022 10:55 pm

billyjf wrote:I just had a pretty significant breakthrough on https://www.mojo.so last week with overcoming different aspects of psychological ED in addition to my physical treatments. Worth a shot.


Yea I never heard of that. I checked the link, but I missed the price.
SWM/never married. 39 years and not experienced. Injuries/trauma at young age due to lack of guidance and good sex ed. Low libido, loss of sensitivity/numbness. Possible PD and probable PSSD. No tests or doppler. Offered tadalafil, clomid and sildenafil


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