Today the wife and I celebrate the two year mark of my penile implant surgery at Vanderbilt. It has been an amazing adventure. The pain and discomfort of surgery are a distant memory. The joy of having a normal sexual relationship with my lovely wife of 42 years is best described as spiritual. Our a...

George Go to the pump section and look up the exercise I posted there. Pump (VED) Exercise. I used it for about 2 years and helped me have a better than expected outcome. When I went to Dr. Milam he told me to keep it up until the day before surgery. It helps keep your penis healthy and from loosing...

George Welcome to Frank Talk. There are sevral of us on this forum that have implants and are very happy with the outcome. My first year story is on page 2 about 1/2 way down. My Story by JackP. Yes you hve to be very careful in sellecting a doctor to do an implant. You want a Male Sexual Function S...

K My wife only went to the urologist with me when he wanted to do some testing. I think it probally be OK for him to teach her how go give shots on a dummy penis. He would not let he give you a shot for testing purposes. When I had my color doppler, and then a bladder scope, my wife asked if she cou...

K The injections did not work for me either. The VED (pump) was all we had for over 2 years until I could get my implant. October 23 it will be two years. All I can say is it gets better and better with age. Wish I had it years ago. Your wife sounds somewhat like mine. That sly grin and the twinkle ...

K I enjoy a lot of nice oral with the wife during foreply. As for lubes we have tried almost all of them. I personally have no problem with any of them. She is a big fan or Dr. Oz and sevral shows ago he suggested olive oil for a lube, not the extra virgin or virgin just plain olive oil. Worked grea...

Hank

One additional way to protect your privacy is when admitted to the hospital tell them you do not want it disclosed you are there. There is a place on the admission for for this.

Jack

K I used them all whle waiting for my implant. The walmart brand worked just as well as the name brands. My wife is a great fan of Dr. OZ. She tells me he recommends olive oil as a lube. Not the virgin or extra virgin just plain olive oil. We tried it the other night and it worked great. Very thin t...

K Some of us are very open with our family and others prefer to keep it to themselves. In my case I was very open to my close family and had a lot of support. When our daughter found out we were going to Vanderbilt by outselves she insisted that her mother and I would not go to Nashville alone. She ...

HardDrive The standard today for most of the GOOD doctors is to leave you 20-30% inftated after surgery and leave it for 6 weeks. That way you have less soreness at activation. I have no idea why your doctor put you through that, unless there was excess bleeding in the corpora's during surgery. As a...