In your initial post you said you were getting a good seal. Ok, Let's go with that. Are you using the manual or electric pump? Using the manual, after you feel the seal, pump about 10 times and wait a couple of minutes. Pump another 10-15 times and again wait a few minutes. Do this until you are ful...

i put a rubber ring over penis From what I can find the impoaid is this Encore pump? https://www.allegromedical.com/products/encore-vacuum-pump-deluxe-battery-powered-vacuum-erection-system-each/ I use the same brand of pump. Before even thinking of using rings, the first task is getting vacuum whi...

I can't seal the pump around the penis, so I can't create a vacuum.

As previously stated a good trim of the underbrush and a liberal application of gel should help.
Can you create a vacuum somewhere else like on your leg?

Mine was done over 40 years ago. Long before I needed help in getting and keeping an erection.

I have a mental picture of trying to fit the pump around the frozen bag of peas.

Seriously, I would not go anywhere near my groin with a vacuum until I was healed.

Getting old ain’t for sissies.
BETTE DAVIS

Since women are NOT allowed to join or post on this site, the responses will be filtered through masculine lenses.

Your most valid answer would be obtained by directly speaking to a woman you are intimate with.

I use a VED for sex. It works great for us.

A good quality vibrator, doggy style, and a blindfold can be your friends!

I'm not sure what is meant by "hourglass" shape?

Think of all the money you will save on porn.

FreddyFree wrote:"..lengthy..."

Ha! I see what you did there.