Yea I kind of figured higher was probably better. Hadn't really thought about engaging the abdominals and the reservoir. I will see if the big mattress fits the frame if not I will go with the higher bed.

Thanks.

This might be a stupid question but I have a two bedroom apartment and the bedroom I sleep in has a mattress that is about 12" high or so and very firm. I don't have it on a box spring or bed frame because I have an old dog who likes to get up there and sleep with me. The other bed is a cheapo ...

I think another thing that has me a little nervous is I haven't told anyone what I am doing my daughter thinks I have a hernia type simple surgery. You have a wife and she sounds like a fantastic support system. That is a bonus. . Well, yeah, if she knew . LOL. Here’s what happened. I saw my urolog...

Don't know where to post this but my wife is getting weird in her old age. Doesn't want to kiss, hug or god no, fuck. She has decided my new implant is disgusting. I do leak urine at times but have learned to control that somewhat. Thinking that is turning her off, I said I would wear a condom. Pro...

Jack, I also had my RARP at city of Hope. I was Gleason 3-4, but they removed all my nerves also. Friend had one there. They took all his nerves also. Starting to wonder if that is just what they do at City ofHope. It sucks because after implant your dick is still dead but full of pumped up implant...

Definitely feel you brother. I am up tomorrow I report to the hospital at 12:30 pm. My fears are similar to yours. It looks pretty small will the size be OK?, what if I get an infection?, what if something goes wrong and I die .... it runs the gamut. In the last month since I decided to do it I have...

I have a desk job but my doc says 1 week. My surgery is on 26th. I'll probably go to office on 6th. 25-1 is a holiday and will take 2nd and 3rd Jan as holidays. But then I'm a wuss. I am also up for surgery tomorrow. Good luck to you my young brother. I am a construction superintendent and will be ...

Awesome news thanks for posting! I am up tomorrow. Happy to hear it went well and you are doing ok without pain killers my doc isn't going to prescribe them just Advil I think.

Merry Christmas indeed!!

Yea scares me too I had an infection in my incision after my prostate surgery and ended up back in the hospital I’m praying doesn’t happen.

Hang in there (pun intended). I’m getting implant Dr Warner City of Hope Glendora CA Dec 26 glad to hear you are getting by (albeit sore) with Tylenol as that is all my doc is giving me. Good luck on healing up well.