I wish someone had said at the beginning of the whole thing, to think in terms of years, not months for ED recovery after surgery. It is great to be better, but at the 6-9 month marks, it was getting pretty dismal. One of my goals is to keep men's expectations realistic. We can all handle reality if...

Julios, Injections are different for every guy. some guys use them for years with great results, others have real problems almost immediately. There are tons of guys who love them. They are a very viable treatment, but not for everyone. Take it all in moderation and do what feels best for you. While...

Hey Bob Welcome to our little corner of the internet. Lots of the guys on here have implants. they'll be along any day now - my guess is that most of them will just say 'do it'. We hear most often on here that guys wish they had not waited so long. You can try the hormone/pill thing, but most guys p...

They need to talk to other guys who have implants. Where do you live? I attended an Implant seminar in NYC that totally explained everything and made me realize that if things ever go downhill, I'll be right in line to get one. They are the only CURE for ED. The guys who have them love them. Let me ...

Dave, I think between your post and Zekeman's it is very clear that it is really one of the hardest things to do - initiate this conversation with your doc. It brings up a whole host of feelings; I'm not as young as i used to be; I'm 'less than' because of it; triggers feelings of shame; inadequacy;...

Hey, lakeerie The viagra helps a lot of guys get the secondary, or latent, erection that engorges the head of the penis. It will really make things look and feel like old times. But many guys don't use it just cause they don't need it after a while. As the length returns after continued use, you mig...

Bonefish, Wiser words were never said. I think that for most men, the two biggest shames in life are admitting we have ED and second would be admitting we have depression. It's crazy what we do to ourselves. Any stressor such as cancer, life change, work, relationship problems, death of loved one, A...

ed4ever You are one of the reasons that doctors can't say 'never'. I have heard of one guy who lost both sets of nerves and needs no meds at all to achieve a perfect erection. He has had no ED issues at all! 100mg Viagra is almost certainly going to help you more. Count yourself among one of the mir...

Flavio These tips should be posted in every men's magazine, medical advice column and doctor's office in the world. Sexual performance is connected to every other aspect of our physical, emotional and mental well being. The Depression aspect often gets overlooked in my opinion. the other huge thing ...

Red, Hey, good for you. you're doing really well. You might try standing up - helps the blood flow. also, the less exertion, the better since exertion tends to draw blood from your penis. So, Doggy style is often the best for those tenuous erections - fortunately, most guys love doggy style. there i...