thanks david_r and CCrider! Definitely will discuss this with a professional. ALSO I had no idea the side effects of viagra that I am having but didn't know. Loss of hearing after sex... Feeling faint etc. I think venous leak is definitely a possibility and there's no way I want to do injections. We...

Thanks Bandit, Dirtman and Larry! Yeah I'll get my signature filled out asap :) Definitely going to lay the cards out with the misses very soon. Our schedules conflict a bit so I'll be setting aside some time shortly to discuss my concerns and how I feel. Good question about the psychological aspect...

Well here goes… Hello! I am a relatively healthy 33 year old guy. Desk job has gained me a bit of a gut but only about 20lbs since my soccer playing day. I’ve been in a great relationship for about 3 years. But I've been struggling a lot.... My story starts way back though. 1st girl I slept with 15 ...