Agfa - Were you able to finish? Did he realize why you were uncomfortable? I have always been more bottom than top. Usually bottoms know if their ass is tight or not. My ass is fairly tight and have had guys penetrate me and tell me it’s too tight for their pleasure. In that case, i can relax more -...

After prostatectomy I was initially put on TriMix and had similar results - erections for 4+ hrs, painful and anxiety about having to go to ER if the erection didn’t go down. Even lowering the dosage didn’t change the outcome. I became so discouraged with trimix that I stopped using it and essential...

I used trimix and I had erections that lasted over 4 hrs and also had the aches as described. My Dr changed me to BiMix and the erection time length was much more desirable, not about an hr or 1.5 hrs and the ache completely went away. Just my experience. Glad to hear the pain is subsiding a bit.

It sounds like that it could be the act of “cleaning out” makes you uncomfortable and while waiting for this process you lose your erection. How is sex without penetration? Oral/JO/Masturbation? Do you still lose your erection? As a 53 y/o gay man, it’s a subject many of think about but rarely discu...

Hi Alex - sorry to hear about all you have been through. I definitely understand the frustration of then vs. now. I had prostate cancer and a prostatectomy in 2012 at 45 y/o and still struggle with this same feelings. Mine range from sadness to anger and any place in between. I tried to bury my feel...

Hi Jessi - the original post was Posted in the ED and Gay men section, so I assume it’s because there is no female involved and anal sex is the normal for MM penetration.

It seems there are many combos of sexuality that works. Whether it’s MMF, MFM or MMM. It’s about the connection. No need to over complicate or judgement. If it works, it works. Enjoy and celebrate each person’s sexuality. Every person perceives it differently and that’s ok. Glad you were able to sat...

I like to put on a jock strap after I take an injection. It makes me feel somewhat “normal” to have a rock hard cock protruding in my crotch. Before PC, ED and when i was younger and could spring an erection without even thinking about it! To each their own, wear whatever makes YOU feel good about y...

Just tried to go into Chat and it immediately went to the new format?

Earlier today, four of us was on the current chat and jumped over to the new one. It's a bit confusing at first. After logging in you are not automatically moved into a chat room. You can see others that are logged on and do individual chat there and I was able to video chat with another member from...