john88: bldoink is right, if there's significant pain and/or resistance to the plunger, you're in the wrong place; pull out and try another spot. The tunica (sheath around a corpus cavernosum) has no nerves and can be penetrated painlessly. It shouldn't feel like a brick wall; if it does, you're in ...

In my single days I met a real 40-year-old virgin! She wanted to start her sex life, so we did but she had vaginismus (pain on penetration due to nervousness) after the first time. So I gave her a set of dildoes I picked out from a sex toy store, of various sizes, the "medium" size being m...

Others have mentioned that Neurontin a.k.a. Gabapentin also has this effect. This is supposed to be one of the most-prescribed medicines, but don't take it for a week before sex!
(I discovered that the herb boswellia works better than Neurontin for my nerve pain.)

I cured moderate Trimix ache by switching to 100mg sildenafil (generic Viagra) with 40% of the Trimix I needed before. (Sildenafil is also much cheaper than Viagra.) This is an "official" method prescribed by my urologist. Injection pain is less with 31 gauge 5/16-inch (8mm) needles.

One of the best sex columnists, in my opinion, Dan Savage (http://www.thestranger.com/Savage), gets queries from wives frustrated with their husbands' small penises. One of his suggestions is to bring a second guy who has a bigger penis into the marriage, a "bull," to service the wife once...

All women love to masturbate while their guy watches. It's a wonderful aspect of femininity. Putting on a "show" is very erotic for them and they have a better orgasm than when masturbating alone. Especially try it if your relationship could use a little improvement. But don't say "ma...

mr.skin: It looks like you are making progress. When I was a teenager (Jugendlicher?) I did not have confidence with girls. Sometimes my penis would lose erection. Then I discovered the advice column (Kolumne von Rat?) in Playboy magazine. It said "Learn to rub and lick the clitoris, all women ...

I have the same problem, which began around age 70. Seems to be less glans sensitivity from simple aging. I stopped masturbating and having my wife masturbate me some years ago and that seems to have restored glans sensitivity a little, but not as much as I would like. I find that caffeine helps rea...

I used Viagra, then Cialis, then that stopped working. My urologist prescribed Trimix plus sildenafil (generic Viagra) 100mg. This works great plus eliminates the Trimix pain since less Trimix is needed. Sildenafil is cheap: $5/time for me.

There's a fascinating website http://www.cuckoldmarriage.info for we straight husbands who have smaller than average penises and who wish to give their wives a once-a-month treat. The site can facilitate finding a "bull" for her. It's been around since 1996 and has many stories of successe...