Conclusion DG, This thread was on Should We Tell and like all good threads its drifted and ebbed. But with you DG ( personal take) I don’t think anyone can help you. Guys come on here because they have ED, the one thing there aiming for get over it and get back on with our sex lives again, we all j...

Your stroke did this really stop you or are your just afraid of getting another stroke from sex? I know it can lower your libido, but sex is one of the things that is good for you, but on the low side not bring on a stroke, try reading this link http://www.strokeassociation.org/STROKEORG/LifeAfterS...

...I cant really understand DG's wife and after the menopause, for most women its a relief from there cycles and free to not worry about getting pregnant, I know some do have problems which is why they have HRT it gets them over that bit... My wife has a history of deep vein thrombosis, which is a ...

dg_moore: Do you have any interest whatsoever in your dick? Do you still masturbate or play with your dick. Seems every man I have shared with who has aged is still fascinated with his dick and at least is playing with it, getting off even flaccid if they cannot get it up. My knowledge comes from f...

It seems that ED is out of the closet and out in the open. All the advertisements all over the place about Cialis and Viagra reflects that ED prevails with many who are over 50 . With that it would not be embarrassing to talk about it and it could be discussed with a friend who has had prostate can...

ED is not a subject that has ever come up in casual conversation for me. If it should come up, I'd be willing to talk about it, but I'm not going to initiate a conversation about it. Like HD just said, it's TMI and nobody needs to hear it unless they were to inquire.

hard drive wrote:I guess I must have some "hang-ups". This just seems disgusting and perverse to me. IMHO

I'm with you. Nobody in my youth ever suggested or talked about such a thing, and if they had I would have thought they were nuts.

It's nobody's business. My doc and my wife and the guys here, but no one else.

...A great puzzlement is how some come out of surgery and report no significant PAIN, while the next guy reports the opposite. WTF/?? As I mentioned in an earlier post this AM, everybody has a different procedure, a different pain threshold, and different healing. Discomfort is not a one-size-fits-...

Your pain story casts a suspicious light on Perioto's web site testimonial from a guy who reported a painless procedure with Perito. http://www.peritourology.com/testimonials/ How's the pain day two? You can't predict your discomfort level based on the accounts you read here or elsewhere. Everybody...