Anyone have trouble using public toilets after implant? I usually just wipe the seat and sit. Now I have to watch dragging the bowl because of extra length. Even years later I still forget sometimes. Tried sitting farther back. Good idea right? Wrong. Felt something strange looked back and had drop...

Anyone had trouble with their catheter? I was sent home with mine. A nurse came to my house and checked it out then removed it the next day. Before then I had a bladder spasm. Peed around my catheter all over everything. Big mess. Wet my nightshirt sheet cover you name it. The next time I was prepa...

I don't understand this penis shame. We're men, we have dicks and sometimes they show. So be it. I do understand there are situations, like with kids, you wouldn't want to let them see a swinging dick. A snug pair of boxer briefs or even a jock strap keeps things circumspect. Dicks come in a variet...

Has anyone had success ejaculating with the Viberect? The device is actually causing me to lose an erection. Thanks It tends to be too painfully intense for me, even on lower settings, plus it doesn't open wide enough to accommodate the thickness of my glans with the cylinder tips inside so I have ...

Agfa13 wrote:...and lots of lube!

Of course that goes without saying.

Good question and helpful responses. I am planning to have anal sex soon so I will make sure to use condoms and follow these practices. My worry is also about the pain.. How was the pain during anal sex as compared to vaginal? The tips are hurting a bit when I try even doggie.. I've initiated anal ...

Sorry guys. I was not clear! I’m with my spouse 36 years. Always bareback anal sex. Never a UTI. What I am concerned about is the chances that anal sex could cause an infection of the penile implant. Not likely as it's a "closed system", meaning the skin of the scrotum and penis are seale...

Has anyone had or heard of getting an infection from anal sex without a condom due to being in an area with bacteria? After anal sex I noticed my urine had an odor. No sign of uti but I had to start antibiotics for a sinus infection and the odor cleared… strange question I know! I would hate to get...

My wife and I were virtually sexless for about 20 years pre-implant. She kept bugging me about it and I kept evading the question (it was me, not her). After my implant she was hesitant at first, stating that she was afraid (to hurt me). Also her libido was low as well due to menopausal symptoms, bu...

I'm ~anorgasmic only during penetration but under manual stimulation I can usually get off fairly well. For that reason I have mentally separated the orgasm from the act of having sex. I can enjoy giving pleasure as long as I want and later if I need to, I can get off by myself, manually. I take thr...