Gotta say my surgery & recovery has been pretty event free for me. Expected worse. Minor pain, more discomfort. 9 weeks post op. Been pumping daily 45-60 minutes for about 5 weeks. Tough to get to 60. Definately stings. Minor size loss but seem to be gaining every day. Also a little tender durin...

I have read many post on FT about giving it time to cycle & stretch. I believe this to be true. I was about 6.25 to 6.5 pre-cancer. Appeared to have lost some with the surgery. On recommendation from my uro, i used VED daily at the begining. Cut back to 4-5 times a week. At 2.5 years after my RR...

Agree with all you guys. Obsess ! We have the right to. We have all been thru more than enough. There was surely a pointt in all our lives and i believe i can speak for all of us that we felt like less than a man. So now, with technology we can perform like more that a man. A "Superman" if...

Cant agree more with tybee. Stay off your feet for first week. Just relax. I did well with pain but noticed a difference being up for a while. Can do everything after 2nd week within reason. Ice for the swelling. I used frozen peas. Works great. This will all help in the long run. Dont rush it. You ...

Ed I been pumping little less than 4 weeks. Dont expect much first few times out. So difference between flacid & hard was about an inch or so. But on the plus side, my hard measurement has increased 1/2 inch in the 4 weeks. This makes me happy/hopeful. Can see that i should make the gains to get...

Tybee, Makes sense for early activation due to scarring. Will likely be sore. Take a pain pill before you go. My surgeon like Ed's scheduled my activation for 6-7 weeks. I was feeling good & had very limited pain so I took it on myself to start pumping at 3.5 weeks. I been pumping daily & le...

I imagine it will. I have been experimenting with pump/deflate. With a "semi" when i massage its a little tender. So when i actually go for intercourse i think i ll pump to 70-80%. Overall i did good with pain. Size wise i am good with what i see & feel that with gains of the lgx i sho...

3 people can keep a secret if 2 get hit by a bus. If you want to be private then dont tell anyone. My wife us the only person who knows because i needed a ride home. Joking about the ride, i trust her my life. Didn't tell my brothers or any other family members. Didnt tell my buddies or work colleag...

MC, So first about the fence. I was never really on it. I counted the days until i could be considered for implant. Grab the bull by the horns. Be in control of your quality of life. I am 6 1/2 weeks post op. Start cycling my implant & clear for sex tomorrow after my dr appointment. Best thing i...

Yeah. Doing really well Ed. Cant wait to be released for sex. Not fearful but i think that it may be a little sore at first but im so ready. It will be so nice to be spontaneous to just make love to my wife. We need this back in our lives. Really looking forward to moving on. Like i said the only di...