CTR5000 wrote:I once heard a simple explanation for the differences between Erotic Sex and Kinky Sex. It's easy to remember because there aren't many variables involved:

Erotic Sex is when you use a feather.

Kinky Sex is when you use the entire chicken!

Using the whole chicken is Beastiality !

First thing is personal hygine. You both need clean bodies before indulging. Especially clean hands. Simply flushing the toilet after urinating can contaminate your hands. Touching a sink faucet handle or using some grubby soap can contaminate you. Some women are just more prone to UTI's . You shoul...

A mismatch in libido , while never a good thing; is not the same thing as "Erotic Sex" vs: "Vanilla Sex" . Vanilla sex is like Missionary position intercourse in the home bedroom. Ho-humm ... Erotic [Kinky] Sex is like Multiple position intercourse; while swinging from the chande...

Fisting is hardly "just" a Gay men culture thing. Heterosexual partners into BDSM partake in both Vaginal and Anal fisting, with Vaginal probably being more prevalent, with anal fisting happening primarily to the males.

Those sensation you mentioned are rea, especially at first.
I've been pierced 20+ years now.

Hello,
Newb from above surgery date.
Heard about the site from a guy in the short stay unit.