My wife knows when I'm orgasming. My glans engorge and my penis twitches (what she calls it).

A clit sucker/vibrator is my wife's only toy. She is quite reserved sexually. She will not use a dildo. Bought her an expensive double density one and she won't even try it. However, as reserved as she is I can't believe how much she enjoys our sex swing. Surprised her with that one about a year ago...

Maybe. I'd turn it the wrong way though so your sack hangs into the opening. The lump on the front where your sack should sit will probably make things uncomfortable.

Happy Birthday oldbeek's lil buddy!

Great quote. Usually true, but not always.
Recovery after implant can be tough. Just think of what the surgeon did down there.

Well I had to drag this one out of the archives after reading it. Have to admit I had sex on the first "date" with my wife. It wasn't really a date. I was going to the mall and she asked if she could ride along. We went our separate ways and met up later. Background is we had been working ...

Lots of good advice already given. All I'll add is worrying about all that stuff will not help or change anything.
The first couple of times will seem/feel different, but only to you. The partner should not notice anything different other than the fact you can go on, and on, and on.

Go find a good men's sexual health urologist and show them that. Something isn't right.
Best of luck.

I don't think it matters, if a female is horny she's horny. I had a female long ago who wanted it several times a day. My wife had her female parts removed in her late 30's, way early for a woman. She's been on an estrogen supplement since. She'll go through phases of wanting it, but longer periods ...