I'm sorry to hear you had to go through all that. Stories like yours about these "mens' clinics" abound - they are nothing but ripoffs. Your post should be required reading for men coming to FT for advice. Perhaps your credit card company can help you - a lot of card companies can get refu...

Do take it easy - you could delay your recovery by overdoing. Get in the recliner, use some Tylenol and ice packs, and let nature take her course.

I always advise men who are contemplating an implant to get it when they first need it. Waiting doesn't improve anything - time is not your friend.

Congratulations! We hear so many stories here of men having trouble finding a doc, getting an appointment, etc. Your saga is a familiar one, but it sounds like it worked out great. We're a bit more fortunate here in the US because it's often pretty easy go get an appointment and surgery date. In my ...

ED2013 wrote:I like the extra attention of that crotch bulge an implant gives you. When I wear my shirt tucked in my pants, I always give it a couple pumps before I go out.

What attention would that be? At my age I'm basically invisible to most people with or without a bulge.

Dave, I am glad you are comfortable where you are. Thought I would throw that out as a suggestion. Best of luck. Life is not the same for everyone and we need to understand that. $#it happens when we least expect it. d I'm 72 and my wife is almost 70. According to current research, over half of peo...

Dave, Good for you, If you and your wife are happy with your life (yours and hers) good for you. If you and wife are close and happy it does not matter what we think as we are to the end of of our lives. You both need to do what you both are going to be satisfied with in the end regardless of what ...

alibaba wrote:I wonder if using your implanted penis would help to retrain your mind after the stroke so you could learn to enjoy sex again

If you're addressing me, the answer is no. My wife is not willing, and I am not interested. We're fine with where we are.

...In 2002 my wife became ill. Long story, I won't go into details. She slowly declined over the next eight years. Our sex life declined as well. As best I can remember, our sex life completely ended sometime in 2007. She passed away in 2010. ...I went about 8 years without having sex. I didn't lik...

Conclusion DG, This thread was on Should We Tell and like all good threads its drifted and ebbed. But with you DG ( personal take) I don’t think anyone can help you. Guys come on here because they have ED, the one thing there aiming for get over it and get back on with our sex lives again, we all j...