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by defiant
Mon Feb 21, 2022 7:48 pm
Forum: Implants
Topic: post op 6 days still bruised and swelling
Replies: 30
Views: 2413

Re: post op 6 days still bruised and swelling

I've had 2 baths starting 7 days after surgery, but one of ralphs team told me i shouldn't today and should only shower. It's strange because some people seem to start having baths from day 3 and cycling. Scar and glands are fine just this hot feeling internally. Maybe it's my immune system clearin...
by defiant
Mon Feb 21, 2022 6:08 am
Forum: Implants
Topic: Implant Journey Begun - One Remaining Concern
Replies: 22
Views: 2121

Re: Implant Journey Begun - One Remaining Concern

defiant, Yes, it took my body time to adjust. My doctor gave me the okay to have sex eight weeks after surgery. But it was two more months, at least, until sex consistently felt good. During that interim, I often felt pain and discomfort or little sensation at all when having sex. But I kept at it,...
by defiant
Sun Feb 20, 2022 1:42 pm
Forum: Implants
Topic: Implant Journey Begun - One Remaining Concern
Replies: 22
Views: 2121

Re: Implant Journey Begun - One Remaining Concern

The one thing about having the implant is the confidence it gives me. Married to a much younger wife brings me some added responsibilities of keeping mama happy. When ED hit I got so depressed. I suggest looking into a few sex toys after you are healed from the implant. There are many male masturba...
by defiant
Sun Feb 20, 2022 12:34 pm
Forum: Implants
Topic: post op 6 days still bruised and swelling
Replies: 30
Views: 2413

Re: post op 6 days still bruised and swelling

artful todger wrote:My biggest problem is i over worry about infection. Did anyone elses balls start getting hot over a week after their implant? The colour and bruising seem to be improving, but they ache and they're hot.


Heat is a normal part of wound healing.
by defiant
Sun Feb 20, 2022 11:37 am
Forum: Implants
Topic: Implant Journey Begun - One Remaining Concern
Replies: 22
Views: 2121

Re: Implant Journey Begun - One Remaining Concern

SearchingUSA wrote:@defiant, congrats on the steps you've taken so far and having narrowed it down to only one remaining concern. Having been implanted only 3.5 weeks I can't really address your question, but it's good to see you making progress towards a decision.



Thanks a lot, man!
by defiant
Sun Feb 20, 2022 11:36 am
Forum: Implants
Topic: Implant Journey Begun - One Remaining Concern
Replies: 22
Views: 2121

Re: Implant Journey Begun - One Remaining Concern

defiant, I've had ED for over 20 years. I felt disconnected to my dick all those years I couldn't reliably get a hard on. Now, without fail, at any time of day or night, I can be hard in a minute or so. Sex feels great! And I'm in a much better place emotionally and mentally than I was 17 months ag...
by defiant
Sat Feb 19, 2022 5:42 pm
Forum: Implants
Topic: Implant Journey Begun - One Remaining Concern
Replies: 22
Views: 2121

Re: Implant Journey Begun - One Remaining Concern

Connection? I'll reply with a story about my daughter. She was unable to have children. She fostered kids that the councilors felt would move over to being adoptable. She came to me with a similar concern about bonding to the children that she eventually adopted. I told her that after a period of t...
by defiant
Sat Feb 19, 2022 5:13 pm
Forum: Implants
Topic: Implant Journey Begun - One Remaining Concern
Replies: 22
Views: 2121

Re: Implant Journey Begun - One Remaining Concern

You have had a lot on your plate. I've dealt with some of that, but not the cancer and boarding school. My mom who lost my dad when I was 4 used to threaten to sent me to a home. I always thought she was kidding, but sometimes I wonder? For what it's worth, I think the implant will solve some of yo...
by defiant
Sat Feb 19, 2022 5:12 pm
Forum: Implants
Topic: Implant Journey Begun - One Remaining Concern
Replies: 22
Views: 2121

Re: Implant Journey Begun - One Remaining Concern

I totally get what you mean. Unfortunately, i am not in the camp that feels like the implant is a part of me. I know a lot of guys do, and that’s great, but I can’t shake the feeling. When I got peyronies I destroyed my psyche. Im sure I still haven’t recovered. Now I’m almost a year post-op, and I...
by defiant
Sat Feb 19, 2022 3:01 pm
Forum: Implants
Topic: Implant Journey Begun - One Remaining Concern
Replies: 22
Views: 2121

Implant Journey Begun - One Remaining Concern

Hi all, I’m now ‘officially’ on a waiting list for an implant. I’m sure a lot of you have noticed that I bring one issue that I struggle with, up a lot. That issue being the mental aspect of things. I hope you’ll forgive me for this. I’ve been through a hell of a lot in my 38 years; losing my father...

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