Thank you everyone for the suggestions. I actually emailed Peter Bajak(?) recently and he said he would love to meet with me. My insurance won't cover the Cleveland Clinic visits, but I will consider it because I've seen several University Hospital urologists and they all SUCK! Dr. Loeb, Dr. Bodner,...

UPDATE: I recently tried over 6 different cock rings. None of them helped keep an erection, but they all made lateral veins pop, and glans stay engorged; so not much assistance there. I also received some Viagra from a friend. I stopped taking Cialis for two weeks to ensure it was completely out of ...

I'm about your age, and going through similar issues. I'm currently trying to find a good urologist who can order me a doppler ultrasound to diagnose/rule out venous leak. If I were in your situation, and offered that surgery, I would probably go see another urologist from a different office. A seco...

Thanks Goodwood. I'll check out the cock rings. Do you also find that help with premature ejaculation, or have no effect on that?

Otter, I know what you mean about not putting your burden on a lady. She'll be thinking about it the entire time, and not focusing on herself/you during sex. That's why I always wait until absolutely necessary to tell a woman about my issues. First and foremost, I don't want them to think they are t...

Thanks Otter. I do intend on seeing a sexual health therapist as well. The question is finding one, and then finding the finances for one. What do you plan on doing for your own treatment at this point?

I have been to at least 4 urologists (i think), and all of them have been sub-par. I would not trust them with my care, or with an extreme option such as an implant (which I'm currently considering). Looking for a recommendation (hopefully from personal experience) that anyone can provide. I am will...

Listener77: As soon as i find a good urologist I'm going to push for some tests, such as the doppler to check for venous leak. Everyone else: Thank you so much for taking the time to give me advice, and input. I'm going to present all these options to a (good) urologist: implants, Vacuum device, inj...

Flavio: have you tried Udenafil? It does not seem to be available in the United States where I live.

Wolfpacker: No i have never tried Viagra. I liked the idea of Cialis in that I can be ready to go whenever, but I suppose I could try Viagra. That being said, it doesn't alleviate my concerns with my vision issues. Lost Sheep: I usually have to have the ED conversation with a woman at one point, and...