I am responding with an update to my own post from yesterday in Delayed Ejaculation. Last night, my wife agreed to give me a hand job and it worked. I had no trouble reaching an orgasm within minutes with her using her hand. What was different was I didn't pump myself into an erection. It was like t...

I am responding with an update to my own post from yesterday in Delayed Ejaculation. Last night, my wife agreed to give me a hand job and it worked. I had no trouble reaching an orgasm within minutes with her using her hand. What was different was I didn't pump myself into a full erection. It was li...

I can relate to "Sex with my wife feels much better and I was close but no cigar tonight. Felt great though. Hopefully it’ll start happening. I can orgasm if I get myself to the trigger point but I’d rather wait for it to happen without any help from me. relate to " There once was a time w...

Be patient. It is definitely a process and in time you will be able to think about things other than your penis! My problem isn't so much my penis, which does get painful now and then when forced to bend unintentionally, but my scrotum. Ir seems the pump and tubes create pressure on my balls, and du...

At the risk of showing my naivety, what is a VED and what does it do to assist in healing? Does the bath/heating pad while inflating/deflating eventually soften the pump and inflatable tubes? Like others who have posted, too often my scrotum feels like there is a small rock in there with my balls an...

To Iwantanewone and others; I am relieved this topic is available as I am now 6 weeks and am also wondering when things will feel "normal" again - or what the new normal will be. From what I have read, I should take warm baths to soften the tubes and expect discomfort for another few month...

[quote] wolfpacker wrote: It's definitely expected that an implant penis will be larger in the deflated state than an unimplanted penis. What angle does it point to? 3 o'clock being straight out, 6 o'clock being straight down/quote] I find myself walking about with a semi-erect penis, hanging betwee...

Agree I was under severe depression and anxiety. I never performed all through my life. Tried almost every possible treatment out there( except maybe PRP, Shockwave) nothing really worked out for me. Finally after 2 years of research and contemplation made the best decision of my life. I wish I kne...

I had my 30 day follow-up appointment with my urologist yesterday. After instructing and watching me inflate/deflate a few times successfully, he gave me a fist "high-five" and said I was ready to go, and could use it tonight if the opportunity arose!! Well, the opportunity didn't arise, a...

Hello, My surgery was on May 17th, and I am 29 days post op, scheduled to be deflated tomorrow. Went in 8 days post op for partial deflation as the stretching at full inflation was painful. Initially and still occasionally, there was/is a severe discomfort in my scrotum, as if there is a wire poking...