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by andrew1959nj
Tue May 19, 2020 2:14 pm
Forum: Implants
Topic: I think my wife is jealous of my implant!?!
Replies: 45
Views: 2826

Re: I think my wife is jealous of my implant!?!

I have been with my partner off and on again for 10 years. Ever since she has known me I have had severe ED and her sex drive was waning. We had sex to completion exactly 3 times in the first 6 months and that was all of the sex that we have ever had together. Sooo, clearly she didn't like me becaus...
by andrew1959nj
Mon Apr 13, 2020 10:07 am
Forum: Implants
Topic: Pain level
Replies: 4
Views: 391

Re: Pain level

I stayed overnight in a hospital overnight and the most uncomfortable part for me was removing the catheter and the drain. At no time during my recovery did I experience any real pain.
by andrew1959nj
Mon Apr 13, 2020 10:03 am
Forum: Implants
Topic: Traveling/Backpacking with implant
Replies: 9
Views: 744

Re: Traveling/Backpacking with implant

I'm 11 months post-op and the only thing that is different for me is riding a bike. I switched from a road bike to a hybrid and changed the seat a few times. The seat nose pressing on my package felt funny and I didn't want to risk breaking anything.
by andrew1959nj
Thu Apr 09, 2020 2:26 pm
Forum: Implants
Topic: 1 year with implant
Replies: 7
Views: 637

Re: 1 year with implant

I concur. May will be my first year anniversary. For me, my procedure and recovery were without pain. It did take me a while to deflate it without discomfort. It always felt like there was something between my sack and the value that was sensitive to squeeze. That has past long ago as my technique i...
by andrew1959nj
Mon Mar 23, 2020 11:13 am
Forum: Sexuality 2.0
Topic: MMF's
Replies: 4
Views: 1746


I have always had a very strong sex drive, but when my ED became full-blown and intercourse became virtually impossible my mind compensated by dwelling on more interesting sexual configurations. At the same time, I had a nice Ginger, Irish girl who had a strong libido as I. When we starting incorpor...
by andrew1959nj
Mon Mar 23, 2020 9:50 am
Forum: Sexuality 2.0
Topic: Masturbation during marriage
Replies: 85
Views: 26063

Re: Masturbation during marriage

I too grew up in a very religious family and feared that most of my thoughts were sending me to hell. Masturbation, in particular, was putting me ahead of the line to hell with some very hairy palms. It's approaching 50 years later, I'm still masturbating as desired and I'm happy to report that I ha...
by andrew1959nj
Mon Mar 16, 2020 9:31 am
Forum: Injections
Topic: trimix not working, whats next?
Replies: 16
Views: 1428

Re: trimix not working, whats next?

If you have maxed out on tri-mix and pills, I would use both simultaneously and you are not getting an erection, an implant is your next step. I wish that I had done mine 10 years earlier.
by andrew1959nj
Mon Mar 16, 2020 9:29 am
Forum: Penile Physical Therapy
Topic: Ejaculate
Replies: 12
Views: 6792

Re: Ejaculate

It's normal for our volume of cum to decrease with age. Although with a few days of abstinence and the "right" motivation I have been pleasantly surprised at times. I have no idea if this is real, but like all of our other body parts and mental faculties, the more we use them, the better t...
by andrew1959nj
Mon Mar 16, 2020 9:22 am
Forum: Penile Physical Therapy
Topic: Abstinence
Replies: 7
Views: 1848

Re: Abstinence

I'm of the use it or lose it camp. Besides having regular orgasms has health benefits too. For 10 horrible years, sex was 95% misses, but while I dicked around getting my implant, I did lots of porn and masturbation with the aid of pills and injections. I kept my size up until my implant where I los...
by andrew1959nj
Fri Mar 13, 2020 1:32 pm
Forum: Implants
Topic: Do you tell people you’re getting-have implant
Replies: 28
Views: 1734

Re: Do you tell people you’re getting-have implant

Outside of my sexual partners, I have only told 3 people. I work at home so recovery was pretty easy. My partner has zero no libido, is dry and no amount of lube even allows me to get it in without pain. She also had a hysterectomy 6 years ago. With my MS, my sensitivity has diminished much which ta...

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