First impressions are important. Take away from it how the urologist makes you feel. If they're warm and comforting, if they listen to you, have lots of ideas for you, suggestions on test they want to run, those are great things. If the urologist is cold and rushed and doesn't listen or seem to care...

I had a puffy area under shaft & near scrotum. That's where the incision was and tubing/pump etc. It was like that for a good couple weeks. Different areas swelling and coming down in their own time. Swelling went down and that sensation came back after probably a few weeks if not a month. Not t...

I was rooting for you this weekend. Actually told my wife about what happened on your scheduled "sex day". Question.... when your girl friend asked if you wanted to have sex did you have to excuse yourself to go pump up or did you just do it in front of her. The reason I ask is that via D...

hturner12 wrote::D . When you need a break instead of stopping just go down on her

Smart man Hugh

jackhammer....I am totally thrilled for you ! I assume this is the same girlfriend that you wrote about a while ago here on franktalk. The discussion was interesting since: jackhammerdreamz states: Interesting point my gf brought up today. She wondered if the "solution" wasn't an implant ...

Brothers! it was great with some pain lol and a learning curve we're adjusting to. My Journal thread 33yrs old Implanted February 6th 2018 Journal has the full story. Wanted to post a new thread so people knew the good news if they hadn't seen the thread. Having three good 20 minute sex sessions in ...

Jackhammer, what's the latest? Haven't heard from you all weekend so I'll take that as a good sign! I'm glad you asked Genesis! Day 46 & 47 Sexy Staycation! This weekend was our Staycation, I booked a room in a swanky downtown hotel, got a room with a view, and a reservation at a nice restauran...

lol thanks for the replies guys! We didn't end up having sex this morning either which is alright. We spoke to our sex therapist today and we have a few things to work on. My mousing around sex isn't a turn on, I have to be more confident. She has to be more warm and forthcoming with her sexual ener...

I'm only 12 days into my new implant and have the same concern for my left testicle. My right one is free but I have trouble disguising the pump from my left one. Hurst when I lie on my side. When I went in the nurse was able to decipher there was no adherence of scrote or testicle to the pump. If ...

Day 43 6 weeks SEX TIME! Or so I thought My girlfriend and I have been seeing a relationship therapist just to get back in touch with our sexuality which we've lost the last year or so. We've always been awkward with sex, but it got to the point where we were so nervous about sex it wasn't working ...