t's a slower process of pump a little, wait, pump a little more until some point is reached. It is best to go slow, especially at first. Several things I noticed after daily use: 1. At first, my erect, ring-restricted penis was cool to the touch. That is no longer the case. 2. I started getting mor...

I started with a #7 the first time but today used the #6 as I felt the #7 wasn't holding the erection very well as it seemed after a few minutes I was getting limp. The # 6 was better but I may try the #5 next to see how that feels. The rings that come with the Encore are pretty crappy. Others here...

Should I lube both my penis and the inside of the cylinder prior to pumping? If you have better luck doing this it is fine. I find a little water-based lube on my penis prior to pumping helps it "slide" through the cylinder. Should I use a separate water-based lube as opposed to the lube ...

It's not age but mind set

Yes and also anatomy. For example, the distance of the clitoris from the vaginal opening is a huge factor in whether the woman has trouble climaxing from PIV. As you say though, mind set, after all the human brain is the largest sex organ we have.

If you wish to maintain an erection after pumping, a medical grade pump is essential. Even with a medical grade pump you will need to "practice" using it. When I got my 1st pump I pumped to full, deflated, and pumped again. At first I did this at least 25 times a night for months. In this ...

Yeah, the late comic Richard Pryor once said he never had pussy better than his right hand.

Yeah but that was before Fleshlights!

If you both want sex, or neither wants sex, everything is fine. It's that middle ground where everything goes south. Very true! My feeling is that she more or less set the time, place and frequency(with few exceptions) when we were "in our prime". If for any reason she wished to shut it d...

I think it kind of depends on what how your pre-menopausal sex life was for her. There are many studies that detail the benefits of a rich, fulfilling sex life for women after menopause. They have to work for it as we men do. Lubes, sex toys, and even clitoral creams are just a few things that can h...

I have also encountered pinching while wearing two. I have found when using 2 rings that using a size or more larger than the single ring is effective, especially for the 2nd or last applied ring. I also found that rings that were ineffective when used as a single worked great as a 2nd or last appl...

I have had good success with the Osbon medium, standard tension band. My erection starts to loos sensativity after 10 minutes and needs to be removed af Have you tried other rings? You use 2 Osbon medium, standard tension? I may try that combo. Even though I have great success with what I am using,...