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by retexan599
Fri Mar 16, 2018 11:35 am
Forum: Emotional and Mental Support
Topic: Depression and E.D.
Replies: 15
Views: 1270

Re: Depression and E.D.

In my life, it has been the reverse for me: depression (and the medications for it) greatly diminished my libido and subsequently led to E.D. A couple of years ago, my psych and I weaned me off of one of the medications (because I really did not need it anymore), and I found that my libido returned ...
by retexan599
Tue Feb 20, 2018 6:22 pm
Forum: Emotional and Mental Support
Topic: Libido issues
Replies: 12
Views: 3484

Re: Libido issues

There is another thread discussing a a similar topic. It may be helpful.

viewtopic.php?f=3&t=9337
by retexan599
Tue Feb 20, 2018 6:13 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: How has ED affected your libido?
Replies: 27
Views: 2143

Re: How has ED affected your libido?

For me, my ED/ libido has been affected by several things. The usual of course, an advancing age. Then, there was life stressors and things like divorces. And the prostate radiation removal treatment. Heart problems preclude things like Viagra for me. And for me, a long running battle with depressio...
by retexan599
Tue Feb 20, 2018 5:22 pm
Forum: Pumps
Topic: Do people really have sex with the VED?
Replies: 12
Views: 2379

Re: Do people really have sex with the VED?

I am one of those who cannot take medications because of heart problems. The vacuum pump has been a lifesaver. But like anything else, it takes practice and experimentation to find the right combination of vacuum, rings, time on, time off, preferred lube, etc. Do some searching around this site, whe...
by retexan599
Wed Jan 10, 2018 5:50 pm
Forum: Pumps
Topic: Losing Erection During Sex
Replies: 8
Views: 4408

Re: Losing Erection During Sex

Speaking as someone who has severe venous leak, I found (at the advice of the Pos-T-Vac customer service rep) using two of their ultimate gel rings worked to hold the erection. https://shopping.rejoynmedical.com/postvac-ultimate-gel-support-ring-penis-pump-accessories/ Usually lasts, but sometimes ...
by retexan599
Wed Jan 10, 2018 5:35 pm
Forum: Pumps
Topic: Best Lubricant for Pumping
Replies: 7
Views: 2399

Re: Best Lubricant for Pumping

I use the Encore system with their silicone based rings. I found that silicone based lubes deteriorate the rings so I don't use those lubes. I used water based lubes for quite a while. Lately I am using coconut oil (buy it in the cooking oil section of the grocery store). It does not deteriorate the...
by retexan599
Sun Dec 24, 2017 1:23 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Use of Fleshlight to overcome anorgasmia (difficulty cumming)
Replies: 26
Views: 3496

Re: Use of Fleshlight to overcome anorgasmia (difficulty cumming)

I had tried the traditional Fleshlight product in the past, but it never felt right, too artificial, wrong texture, whatever. Thought I read a post in Franktalk about the version called a Quickshot and bought it on a whim: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0161NZJVY?th=1 I have used it twice and it...
by retexan599
Sun Dec 24, 2017 12:59 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: PROSTATECTOMY QUESTION....
Replies: 12
Views: 1047

Consider Radioactive Seed Implants

Thought this may be useful: When I was diagnosed with prostate cancer in 1999, I researched the three main approaches: prostatectomy, external radiation, radioactive seed implants. I elected to go with the seed implants (brachytherapy). I was concerned that the surgery might either fail to get all t...
by retexan599
Sat Sep 16, 2017 10:17 am
Forum: Sexuality 2.0
Topic: Masturbation during marriage
Replies: 60
Views: 12556

Re: Masturbation during marriage

Not to hijack or get off topic i found I have lost interest in porn videos, would rather read a story but even some of those the bullshit flag goes up real fast Yeah, that can be a problem. I manage it with variety. I have a collection of images that I refresh from time to time by removing old ones...
by retexan599
Sat Jun 24, 2017 2:42 pm
Forum: Implants
Topic: Advanced sex techniques for bionics -- share your expertise
Replies: 79
Views: 11104

Re: Advanced sex techniques for bionics -- share your expertise

Since many of us will be in the older person category, the lady's natural juices may not be as prolific as when younger. So, a modest amount of lubricant will help oil the wheels of progress, so to speak....

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