And I'm nowhere near 'normality' or 'cure'. But it's a slow process.

Well obviously I know that you fractured your penis and therefore that is a stumbling block however, it will help I'm sure. They need to be stuck with and done properly.

Hi guys! This may be long so do try to stick with it! I always try to give a backstory so newcomers can have the full picture. I'm 32 now and had a bad experience with a girl when I was 21 - after a night of drinking I lost it and she was less than cool about it. Since then I've always focused on my...

You guys have been so helpful, honestly, this place is like a band of brothers. Most of you will have a vague idea of my situation and background from my many ramblings on here, begging, hoping against hope for help. Some may not. So to summarise in bullet point form, because we all love lists: - ba...

Yeah, it runs so deeply now. I think I've certainly developed a mental disorder and I don't know if it's even salvageable. Even if I were to be implanted, I would most likely suffer from guilt and shame, even though that is just ridiculous. I've had several engagements now since my girl has been bac...

Hey Nowhard, Yeah I get you man and I know that performance anxiety is my major problem and my whole attitude to sex now has been completely eroded. I just think that 11 years of this kind of thinking has reached a point of critical mass now. And I fear the counselling has come too late. It's too in...

I know. Well pills are working but I'm having a hard time working out dosage. I feel as though 5mg Cialis daily won't be enough. And I've been overdosing so I'm suffering headaches. This whole problem (perhaps because of my pessimistic and catastrophising personality) is really becoming everything. ...

I fear I'm losing this battle. I'm using more and more Cialis to maintain this regular and steady relationship. Going beyond the stated 5mg daily usage which I fear won't help, even though I've been scared to try it on that basis. Fear is my biggest enemy and it's just ruining my quality of life. I'...

Hi AVL, How are you? May I ask what your condition is? I hope you're managing it well. I just spoke to my family doctor about the alpha blocker. As expected he said he couldn't prescribe it for ED as that's not its licenced use. There are other ways to get your hands on all kinds of drugs but I am w...

As an update: I'm well on my way through this process of elimination. I saw a specialist physio yesterday and had an examination of the pelvic floor including a rectal exam and ultrasound. Indeed, my pelvic floor is weak, a 3/5 as she put it. I have been set an exercise regimen for 6 months (Kegelli...