You must be feeling better... spanking the monkey again!

While at my urologist appt last night I asked about pumping and cockrings ... Bruce Richard (Rich1958) Good input, Rich! My urologist says that he regularly prescribes pumping for post-prostatectomy therapy; therefore it would be good for improving EQ (erection quality) in other situations, too. An...

I've had mild and occasional ED for at least ten years now. During the past decade, I have done internet searches on the subject from time to time, and came across Frank Talk long before I joined. I thought it was mostly for "desperate cases." I joined only after a friend of mine, contempl...

Daveuk36: "I always like to start in my undies, rubbing through the material until i get a fairly decent hard on, which doesnt take too long. (as i've said, i get hard, its keeping hard that i cant manage) Then its pants pushed down to just under my balls, as they are small i enjoy the slight ...

The article gets a few other things wrong, too. The author seems to think that everyone is ignorant about post-menopausal, vaginal dryness. As if there are more Viagra commercials than KY commercials! She does seem to have an axe to grind, but reading the comments already posted to her blog, a few o...

Happy Inflation Day, man!

Thanks for letting us share your exuberance, Matt. I don't know when it would be more difficult to go back to work--right after the surgery, or right after inflation!

I've asked myself this question in different ways: not necessarily "When do I throw in the towel," but "How do I grow old gracefully?" I know a widower in his 90's who lives in an assisted living facility. He's happy and content, even though he's widowed and (I'm pretty sure) wou...

Thanks, DTWarren, for a good explanation of getting an aneros in place. You also asked a good question: "What's more important--sexual pleasure or not feeling like a deviant?" Someone else told me in chat the other night that he bought an aneros, but threw it out because it didn't work on ...

I agree that FT should stay a guys-only site. After all, if we have an insight from a spouse, we can post it as a member. Getting back to the original question, my wife and I have been pretty open about stuff ever since we were engaged. She sympathetic when I can't get it up or can't keep it up for ...

I'll just add ditto marks: You're in our thoughts and prayers!