Waiting is the hard part at first, then comes the healing process. Give yourself plenty of time. Also for your wife. Her vagina may have atrophied some, and sex could be painful for her. It would be wise for her to go to her GYN to get checked out. Vaginas do shrink from non-use. My wife said she wo...

Jollis, This is a major surgery. You will need to be off your feet for two weeks, and I mean flat as much as possible,sitting as little as possible to minimize complications. Also, have your wife go to a GYN to have her vagina examined for atrophy. My wife and I did not have intercourse for 4 years,...

Lay low and stay off your feet for two weeks. It will honestly take that long.
Thanks, Gary

OK-success today with masturbation and orgasm. My wife and I can't have intercourse at this time due to the fact that her vagina is not is shape yet. We tried once after I was cleared for sex on June 5. We tried the next day, but she was too sore. So since then I have been trying to masturbate and h...

I have not tried to masturbate with the vibrator on the prostate. The next time I will try that.
That for the info.
Gary

On June 5, I was cleared by the surgeon for sex. She inflated and deflated the pump and said it was a go. The next day, my wife and I tried to have intercourse, but her vagina has atrophied over 4 years, and it was too painful for her to have sex. OK, the next day I tried to masturbate and at least ...

Dave,
I was being a little generic. I know there are several forms of HRT, not just Premarin. My wife got some cream and suppositories today, and the GYN will do some research on what to use that we can afford. Thanks, Gary

The first time I tried to use my implant for sex was not. My wife's vagina had atrophied over 4 years and I could not enter her. It was painful even with generous lubricant. Today she went to a gyn doc for an exam. They are starting her on HRT (premarin) and some over things to get her vagina back i...

My pump was at the bottom of the scrotum and the tubing on top which kept the penis elevated at all times. Now that I have handled the pump, it inverted, it is directly underneath the penis, and looks like a third testicle. My wife and I have not consummated yet, due to her vaginal pain. She sees a ...

Congrats on the implant. Realize that this is a major surgery and not a minor surgery. Once the surgery is done, literally stay off of your feet for two weeks as much as possible. I used ice in ziplocks wrapped in a towel several times daily to keep the swelling down. The first few days I took Vicod...