Larry10625 wrote:and I don't know if it's the same for you gents but, my wife thinks she is no longer attractive to me.
Larry
There is an easy fix for that.., Get some massage il and start massaging ger feet and work your way up.
Doing the dishes is strangely erotic for many housewives, too. (You doing them, NOT HER!)
Asexual displays of affection work wonders, as do flowers unexpectedly.
Having successfully avoided the institution of marriage for nearly 7 decades I am now qualified to give marital advice to anyone.
Women get a remarkable amount of "warm fuzzy" feelings and a GREAT deal of reassurance of their desirability from just being hugged. I don't explain it, just observe it.
One story I heard is that a man put a note, "I love you." in his wife's shoe when he knew she was going shopping. She did not notice it until the shoe clerk pointed it out to her. She felt attractive, all right.