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Does it seem to anyone else that most of the issues here are similar to the issues of "how to discuss one's sexual hostory, especially sexual health history"?

B ringing both up at the same time might be REALLY problematic. Which one to bring up first is another question as well.

I told my girlfriend last night. She was incredibly understanding and supportive. I feel lucky to have her in my life. She asked a few questions, and she thanked me for being open with her. She completely understood why I didn’t tell her initially. (We have had marathon sex sessions over the past few weeks.) She commented that she feels closer to me now. She even shared some things about her past. Then we had sex again. Oh and we had sex this morning. Haha.

Not to diminish how wonderful she is, but I think for guys that are concerned about this, it’s a bigger deal in our minds.

Dustyknox wrote:I told my girlfriend last night. She was incredibly understanding and supportive. I feel lucky to have her in my life. She asked a few questions, and she thanked me for being open with her. She completely understood why I didn’t tell her initially. (We have had marathon sex sessions over the past few weeks.) She commented that she feels closer to me now. She even shared some things about her past. Then we had sex again. Oh and we had sex this morning. Haha.

Not to diminish how wonderful she is, but I think for guys that are concerned about this, it’s a bigger deal in our minds.

Amen my friend, and congratulations. Great words to hear. And inspiraiton in the sack. Enjoy it.

Dustyknox wrote:I told my girlfriend last night. She was incredibly understanding and supportive. I feel lucky to have her in my life. She asked a few questions, and she thanked me for being open with her. She completely understood why I didn’t tell her initially. (We have had marathon sex sessions over the past few weeks.)

Pity that she never plays with your balls...

Hahahahaha... she does now!

Congratulations, sir!!!

Strongagain if you read my posts, you would realize my girlfriend did NOT touch my scrotum until AFTER I told her about my implant.

I agree that a woman playing with the scrotum would realize there is something different and ask questions. I don’t want anyone considering the surgery to be mislead. If a casual hookup plays with your scrotum, she will more than likely know something is different in there. The pump is MUCH harder than your testees. However this fear can be avoided by telling your partner you don’t like your balls played with.

Dustyknox wrote:Strongagain if you read my posts, you would realize my girlfriend did NOT touch my scrotum until AFTER I told her about my implant.

I agree that a woman playing with the scrotum would realize there is something different and ask questions. I don’t want anyone considering the surgery to be mislead. If a casual hookup plays with your scrotum, she will more than likely know something is different in there. The pump is MUCH harder than your testees. However this fear can be avoided by telling your partner you don’t like your balls played with.

I don't think I have ever had a girl go for my balls.... dick maybe but, not balls.

Larry

this fear can be avoided by telling your partner you don’t like your balls played with.

But what if you LIKE having your balls played with?

Lost Sheep wrote:

this fear can be avoided by telling your partner you don’t like your balls played with.

But what if you LIKE having your balls played with?

Well... ya can't have your cake and eat it too...

Larry