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Michael,
Well, the in-between woman sounds a right bitch. I trust she's now found the sort of companionship she deserves. With raging, purulent herpes lesions to remind her of all the great times she's had, spreading goodness and light.
But seriously, your story is very sad, and I feel for you. You've been doing it tough one way and another for a mighty long time.
I understand that it is not uncommon for pleasant sensation to be recovered or improved over the months post surgery. And It would be nice if your wife would at least try out your new toy, or even a loving alternative mode of sexual expression. After all, the brain remains the most powerful sexual organ, if it's switched on to the possibilities.
But I'm not able to offer any useful practical advice on relationships or medical matters; all I can offer is my hopes and best wishes for you.
Ken

Eveready wrote:Michael,
Well, the in-between woman sounds a right bitch. I trust she's now found the sort of companionship she deserves. With raging, purulent herpes lesions to remind her of all the great times she's had, spreading goodness and light.
But seriously, your story is very sad, and I feel for you. You've been doing it tough one way and another for a mighty long time.
I understand that it is not uncommon for pleasant sensation to be recovered or improved over the months post surgery. And It would be nice if your wife would at least try out your new toy, or even a loving alternative mode of sexual expression. After all, the brain remains the most powerful sexual organ, if it's switched on to the possibilities.
But I'm not able to offer any useful practical advice on relationships or medical matters; all I can offer is my hopes and best wishes for you.
Ken

Very well said Ken. Sometimes sensation returns but, it's simply a matter of time. Enjoy your toy and if you happen to develop better sensation, consider it a Christmas present. All the best to you mate.

Larry

PFracture, I didn't know Dr. Kramer so I went on Youtube and watched his videos. While interesting, I don't have Dr. Kramer. And in California, I am not likely to, nor likely to afford him. So I realize there is one person who offers hope to do revisions, but it doesn't seem directly practical for me. And if you read what I said, I have little feeling and a wife who won't yet even try my 3.75 inches. So someone like Dr. Kramer might get me my 5.5 inches back, still with little feeling, and probably still with a wife who won't use it. I appreciate the ideas, but possible has to balanced against practical, as well as financially available, and the feeling that I have a dildo growing out of my body.

michaelm, If you're in California see Dr. Karpman. I love my wife - to death do us part. However, when I got my implant I did it for me, not for her. I'm on my second marriage, (got a good one this time), you're on your 3rd. You have the rest of your life to think about, you never know what the future may bring.

btw, Karpman had no problem telling me what my other surgeons did wrong and what he was going to do to fix it...

Zxylpk wrote:btw, Karpman had no problem telling me what my other surgeons did wrong and what he was going to do to fix it...

Good surgeons hate butchers and will point out what is wrong. The problem lies with them stating it for the record in a malpratice suite

I hate say it but maybe that all you got is 3.5" Do you have a floppy head ?

Joe, nope hard as a rock

Michael,

Have you considered a video consultation with Dr Eid? Might be a way of getting an expert opinion on your situation from a top surgeon at relatively little expense. I think for your own peace of mind you need to know what your options are and what a revision might accomplish.

warrenw wrote:Michael,

Have you considered a video consultation with Dr Eid? Might be a way of getting an expert opinion on your situation from a top surgeon at relatively little expense. I think for your own peace of mind you need to know what your options are and what a revision might accomplish.

Indeed. I'm sure Michael will have 300 bucks and some time to spend skyping!