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MichaelM wrote:Why would the Representative of the implant company, AND the doctor both say that what they implanted was the biggest that could fit if that wasn't true? Many people here have said something like "The doctor is covering her butt, and doesn't care, and is a woman" but they also said "Believe the company rep. He'll tell you the truth". Well, the rep said "you may think you were longer, and you may have been at one time, a long time ago, but you haven't had an erection since 2007, and had a radical prostatectomy in 2013, and from 2007 to 2013 you had no erections and did not use the vacuum pump. You only started using it since 2013, and I was there in surgery, and I provided the doctor with the largest implant I had that would fit but also allow you to grow. We can't just put in something way too big and then plan on your penis growing to match it. Your penis was inside your body at the beginning of surgery and not visible. After all the tests, stretching, and inserting possible implants, what we put in was going to give you room to stretch and the biggest we were willing to insert where the pump could actually be stitched to the top of the inside of your scrotum".

alibaba wrote:

MichaelM wrote:Why would the Representative of the implant company, AND the doctor both say that what they implanted was the biggest that could fit if that wasn't true? .

Again, I do not give a nickle for some of these second opinions after the fact. 1) no measurement can be made except in surgery. Unless the second opinionator cut you open and measured him/her self, then they can render no valid opinion.

2) Having watched many videos, it is clear some doctors make little effort to measure to the max, little effort to measure period. Some doctors stretch, pull and push to make sure they have every last cm possible and then remeasure again.

The salesman in the O.R. likely last sold old worn out cars formerly driven to old ladies only on church Sundays in his last job. Commission is the same either job. Everyone has to cover each other's ass. That is where the money is. Money speaks louder than results in today's world.

torless50 wrote:Love does not exist is just an invention
A man and a woman without sex can not be, just my two cents

Lost Sheep wrote:

torless50 wrote:Love does not exist is just an invention
A man and a woman without sex can not be, just my two cents

You could be right. Throughout a large part of human history, marriage was a social construct for practical purposes of property, progeny and politics. The emotional bonding between a couple is hard to deny, though, once you have felt it. But, it could be just a delusion.

I have to point out that your first line might make a good song lyric and your second line sounds like the premise of the movie "Sleepless in Seattle". Neither observation should be taken as detracting from the possibility that you are spot-on with both.

MichaelM wrote:OK, I looked into a re-do. My doctor does not agree she did anything wrong. So I have to make an appointment with another urologist who is in my health plan. And then I have to get that urologist to criticize the other doctor and state for the record that the surgery was done wrong. Without that, I can have a re-do, but the health plan will not pay for it, and it would cost a minimum of $15,000. Is that what you guys who had a re-do paid? I have no $15,000, and my best friend is a doctor in another city, and he said "there's essentially no chance any urologist is going to say your doctor screwed up. Your penis was inside your body when you went into surgery. You have no evidence that you were any specific size at all, and you now have a very normal looking penis, and your complaint is that when inflated, you believe it is shorter at 3.75 inches than it should be, with no evidence at all. First of all, you can't prove it, and second of all, 3.75 inches is considered enough for intercourse. You have no chance of a revision being paid for by your insurance plan".