Should I tell my friends?

The final frontier. Deciding when, if and how.
dg_moore
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Re: Should I tell my friends?

Postby dg_moore » Tue Jul 11, 2017 7:04 am

I can't believe how intrusive this "friend" of yours is being. When I had my surgery I told people who asked about it that I was having a minor plumbing repair. Upon hearing this, none of them pressed for details. I'd tell your buddy "Thanks for you concern" and refuse any further comment.
Dave, 80, Maryland - Implant (Titan) 2008 by Dr. Andrew Kramer (failed Sept 2020) - never used due to a stroke that, among other things, ended my sex life.
Life is not the way it's supposed to be, it's the way it is.

Eveready
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Re: Should I tell my friends?

Postby Eveready » Tue Jul 11, 2017 7:39 am

Smetro wrote:Ever
good one mate: "crack a fat"...... Seppo's won't get that one hahahahaha

I told a couple of close 'younger' mates and even showed one and his girl (sex crazy pair) how it pumped up.
I told my kids I was away having a little benign lump removed from a testicle (to explain my groin discomfort) and worked perfectly.
Decided not to tell any of my friends in my age range because I have discussed ED with perhaps 10 blokes 55 to 63 and guess what?
They are all still superstuds! Most common statement? "I'll never ever need Viagra... still works like when I was 18!"
Fucking liars at least 5 of them...... Every man on here knows the percentages....we know that they haven't yet faced up to their erection mortality but I can see it in their wive's eyes and read it in their relationships.
Stupid, stubborn fuckers (or not-as the case may be) they have no clue of my journey thru pills, potions and injections... Like all you guys I refused to quit fucking women and here I am now proudly bionic with the hottest chick I've ever had (in a long line of lovely women) fucking her and myself stupid and very willing to share the experience with those guys... no, not telling them... they would laugh and think I was weird or not as potent as they are...oh well

So true the bullshit blokes still talk (especially after about ninety beers), tho I did know a guy who at 65 could still hammer his way unaided through a couple of tarts in an hour. But he was the exception. I have treated the RP as a perfect excuse, since relevant nerves were not spared. Truth be told, I've been fading badly for years and years, and if you met the bride you'd wonder how she put up with it for so long.
Melbourne, Oz. Radical prostatectomy & titan implant at 60. Size uncertain, but big enough to hang onto. Nah, it's huge!

Smetro
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Re: Should I tell my friends?

Postby Smetro » Tue Jul 11, 2017 8:25 am

Eveready wrote:
Smetro wrote:Ever
good one mate: "crack a fat"...... Seppo's won't get that one hahahahaha

I told a couple of close 'younger' mates and even showed one and his girl (sex crazy pair) how it pumped up.
I told my kids I was away having a little benign lump removed from a testicle (to explain my groin discomfort) and worked perfectly.
Decided not to tell any of my friends in my age range because I have discussed ED with perhaps 10 blokes 55 to 63 and guess what?
They are all still superstuds! Most common statement? "I'll never ever need Viagra... still works like when I was 18!"
Fucking liars at least 5 of them...... Every man on here knows the percentages....we know that they haven't yet faced up to their erection mortality but I can see it in their wive's eyes and read it in their relationships.
Stupid, stubborn fuckers (or not-as the case may be) they have no clue of my journey thru pills, potions and injections... Like all you guys I refused to quit fucking women and here I am now proudly bionic with the hottest chick I've ever had (in a long line of lovely women) fucking her and myself stupid and very willing to share the experience with those guys... no, not telling them... they would laugh and think I was weird or not as potent as they are...oh well

So true the bullshit blokes still talk (especially after about ninety beers), tho I did know a guy who at 65 could still hammer his way unaided through a couple of tarts in an hour. But he was the exception. I have treated the RP as a perfect excuse, since relevant nerves were not spared. Truth be told, I've been fading badly for years and years, and if you met the bride you'd wonder how she put up with it for so long.

Yep, i know what you know about blokes we know!
and yes there are some of them, still potent but they are the exception
68,Titan Touch 22cm+1.5cm rte's op done in Melbourne Aust by Dr Chris Love-Feb 2017 Venous leakage over a 2 year period, did pills and Caverject. Length@ 3 1/2years is: 7+” erect, 6.5” flaccid and almost 6” girth. REZUM Feb 21 ejaculation now normal.

nudist
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Re: Should I tell my friends?

Postby nudist » Tue Jul 11, 2017 8:52 am

If my implant is successful in sept, I'll probably get a tshirt that says "one man gangbang!"
updated: 70 y.o., implanted with titan nov. 3 by Dr. Brady in orlando to correct peyronies. 20 cm with 3 cm RTEs. due to the severity of the peyronies, some internal excisions were made scrotally, recovery will probably take a little longer.

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Re: Should I tell my friends?

Postby Donnie1954 » Tue Jul 11, 2017 9:56 am

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Jamesbond
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Re: Should I tell my friends?

Postby Jamesbond » Tue Jul 11, 2017 11:42 am

What's done is done. Stay away from him for awhile. If he asks tel him you where busy, had things to do etc.
Just wait see if he tells others if you have mutual friends.
If he asks 4 more deails or talks maybe it is best to get rid of him.

I have not gotten the implant yet. Not long ago I ended 30+yr friendship over something else.
He screwed me over before but this time it was the last time.

Almost stopped talking to him years before. He turns around and trashes everyone.
What I could have done is told his wife that his girlfriend was not happy with his small penis. I did not. With talking to his friends I found out he screwed over his co-workers. Peope like that do it to everyone. They know everyone's personal buisness. They rarely tell theirs or the bad stuff. Like about him cheating on wife.
I don't need the B/S

Old women have to know everyone's buisness. Then they go around and gossip.
Nothing better 2 do.

That guy U told needs to grow up and grow a pair.

If he tells anyone or asks questions don't answer. Then wait a month or 2 and don't bother with him anymore. Get new friend. Tell him you got a new girlfriend and you are breaking implant in. Your partner can get enough of your implant.

Re former friend. I am better off. I have other friends. If not I wil get a dog.
Thinking of getting implant. Have not done it because of the length I
have lost.
50, Straight, I miss women

Cnidium
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Re: Should I tell my friends?

Postby Cnidium » Tue Jul 11, 2017 5:13 pm

I think you need to think about what kind of person your friend is. If you think he is the type of person that will tell everyone, and you feel that people knowing this information will negatively affect you, then don't tell him.

My plan is to tell only 1 of my best friends because I know this guy can keep his mouth shut, and we share everything. My other 3 best friends, or are not inferior to the first one, I will not tell anything too, because they can't keep their mouths shut. However, if they end up finding out, its just time to man up and own it.

So what kind of person is your friend?
Titan OTR. Dr. Hakky - successful surgery and very happy with outcome.
My advice: choose a world-class surgeon and make yourself the healthiest you can.

Zxylpk
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Re: Should I tell my friends?

Postby Zxylpk » Tue Jul 11, 2017 7:45 pm

I have mixed feelings about this topic. I have told no one except my wife and have sworn her to secrecy. I am a private person too, but sometimes I wish I was more like eveready and could just get it all out there and enjoy the humor of it. I have a couple of close friends I'd love to talk to about it. I think it would be releasing for me and bring us closer as friends. But I know I won't, which means I'm keeping them at arms length about something that has been (and continues to be) a very big deal in my life. Sometimes I wonder what kind of friend this makes me?
74 y/o Implant 21cm, 1cm rte ams 700 CX, Feb 21, 2017, Dr. Karpman, Mt View, CA

Bandit
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Re: Should I tell my friends?

Postby Bandit » Tue Jul 11, 2017 9:31 pm

3 people can keep a secret if 2 get hit by a bus. If you want to be private then dont tell anyone. My wife us the only person who knows because i needed a ride home. Joking about the ride, i trust her my life. Didn't tell my brothers or any other family members. Didnt tell my buddies or work colleagues. I am a private person by nature. No ones business. Cant deal with a million stupid questions either. The only exception i think i would make is if someone close was in the same situation & they needed advice. And even then i would have to give it a lot of thought. Just my 2 cents !
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Born 1958, married. Prostate Cancer. RRP November/2014. PSA undetectable since. Implant May/2017 AMS700LGX 18 cm + 1.5 cm RTEs.

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Re: Should I tell my friends?

Postby Tybeeman » Tue Jul 11, 2017 9:49 pm

I put this same question out here a few months ago. It was almost unanimously that you should only tell your wife or one close friend. I wouldn't care if I told everyone. My wife would have no part of that. I have 4 brother's and she has a brother and sister. We both have our mom's and 5 kids all of them live in this same town. Oh and a grand daughter 4 years old. How we have keep this a secret is unbelievable, so it can be done. My one problem with it is I wish I could talk to people that are on the fence. So, I try to tell as many people I know to check out this site.
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