How does implantation change you as a person?

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alibaba
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Re: How does implantation change you as a person?

Postby alibaba » Tue May 08, 2018 11:04 pm

merrix has discussed this extensively in his updates. I have to say he is correct in stating you have reprogram yourself from you old ways of forcing yourself through getting the job done and relearn how to be intimate, take your time and enjoy it. I still need to figure it all out after so many years of fighting e.d. 10 months taking care of my dad and no time for it has not helped. The mechanical portion will become automatic just like when you do not have to plan your thoughts to take an exit ramp. There is less stress when you know it is going to work every time, on time without letup. Cheers
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Lost Sheep
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Re: How does implantation change you as a person?

Postby Lost Sheep » Wed May 09, 2018 12:45 am

Baseballfan11 wrote:
Lost Sheep wrote:If you are happy with your significant other and she is happy with oral sex. many couples are perfectly content with that activity. Just a thought.

I a going out on a limb with the thought that you are mot as much concerned with how to adjust physically to having an implant (clothes, appearance in public, exercising, sports, etc) but with how it may change your self-image, your relationships and how you view yourself, your partner and sex.

A question I asked in this thread: "Personality changes with sudden restoration of sexual ability?"

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Damn lost sheep, that answer scares me. I'm sorry but I don't think I would be content not having a chance for penetration for my remaining 50 plus years on earth

Then you have to read past the first paragraph and get between the lines. The first paragraph, after all, is a conditional.

So, here is another conditional. If you cannot find a lesser solution that will enable you to have satisfactory sex, then you "buck up" and go for the solution that has the best chance to give you what you need.

Knowledge vanquishes fear. I studied up for several months and it took 14 months to line everything up, but I am erectile now.

You can do the same.
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