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That's how I hoped, and thought, it would all turn out.
I believe she was glad you confided the info to her.

Hoping4it...that's great news ! So glad to hear you got it off your chest. I too went thru a similar situation recently. I have been using Viagra for about 5 years now. I didn't really care about telling past girlfriends but I did finally meet the woman of my dreams about 3 years ago. I finally had to tell her recently that I was using Viagra because the side affects had gotten so bad that I had to back off on using them and she was starting to think I wasn't interested in her anymore.

Needless to say...it was a very hard decision for me to make and I thought about it for weeks before I told her. She is extremely sexual and needs it everyday. I just could not keep up anymore. She was dissapointed that I had not been honest with her and she is dissapointed we won't be having sex everyday but she has told me she still wants to be with me and help me thru this. As you well know...it's very difficult for a man to deal with this issue and it's so hard to talk to others even your own doctor about it. It's very personal.

So she has known for about 2 months now and things are still ok. I just hope she doesn't give up on me. I love this woman and I am really hoping I can get to the root cause of my problem and get it corrected. Low T seems to be a good starting point.

Anyways...glad you told her and I hope you have a long happy marriage together.

Cheers
Flannigan

Update... Wife is taking it in stride. Rabbits have nothing on us . Trimix has changed my life. Ed is horrible, Everyone here knows this. But to have a treatment which when used properly produces reliable and repeatable results, with very few side effects compared to pills is so awesome.

Flannigan have you tried trimix

I have not tried the Trimix yet. I might have to go that route soon and I have heard mostly positive comments on this site about it. The pills are just wreaking havoc on my body now. I have body aches and upset stomach for days after taking it. I am hoping that if I get my T level up that maybe my wanker will return to it's old self. I have a feeling that might be wishful thinking but I have to at least give it a try first before trying the Trimix. I am not sure if my girlfriend is going to be ok with me have to stick a needle in my wanker every time we want to do it. It seems like it would take a lot of the romance and fun out of it. She is still coping with the fact that I have to take Viagra and that I even have ED. She is being supportive for now but may start hitting me with her purse soon unless I can figure this bs out.

Cheers

I would look at it simply - can you keep this secret from her forever? you said it bothers you keeping it from her, but how much does it bother you? do you feel now or feel that in the future, you will NEED to tell her?

if she was serious that she would rather be in a sexless relationship than be with a man that will treat his ED (which may have been an exageration to illustrate her commitment to being a naturalist), then the choice is also yours if you want to be with a woman that does not want to have sex.

Flannigan...

I really enjoy the erection obtained with trimix.... you can see my SHOW AND TELL post by clicking this:

viewtopic.php?f=5&t=1434&p=9557&hilit=ohohia+s+replacement+post#p9557

I get the same from my wife of 14 years don't use injections sex is not important a real man is judged by how well he supported his family

I get the same from my wife of 14 years don't use injections sex is not important a real man is judged by how well he supported his family

Robert, when I first was going to use injections, I could tell my wife was ready for sex.
She mostly just got more huggy in the mornings. Now, I think her preferred time is every 3 days.
I know they are all different though.